Fletch Lives Posted June 19, 2021 Posted June 19, 2021 Don't feel bad - most men wish for a stick with boobs. It's just biology. That's dating - you have to meet them to really see what they look like......there is just no way around it. 99% of your time in dating is wasted. That's just the way it goes. However, you can get good at judging weight by photos. It's not as bad as it seems though - maybe you'll make a friend. You can only have one lover but you can't have too many friends!
elaine567 Posted June 19, 2021 Posted June 19, 2021 On 6/17/2021 at 7:22 PM, dangerous said: What to do? Do I come out and say before meeting: are you still as slim as your photos? I doubt any woman would be impressed if you asked that, and I am not sure how you ever come back from that one whether she is a slim girl or not... 2 1
Gaeta Posted June 19, 2021 Posted June 19, 2021 8 hours ago, Fletch Lives said: Don't feel bad - most men wish for a stick with boobs. It's just biology. That is highly untrue. Men are looking for a good hip/waist ratio that indicates good child bearing capability. Doesn't matter if you are a size 0 or a size 10, if you have that ratio men will be attracted. Very little men are attracted to skin and bones. OP may be, some men are, but it's far from being the majority of men. 2
chillii Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 Oh man , way over annualized. The last thing on the planet we're thinking about is whether she's child bearing believe me. l don't think l've ever thought that in my life. lf she's really built to our specific taste we just wannaaaa, well, yaknow. ps , skin is huge to btw , nice skin is sooooooo sexy , as are fine bones too , well to my tastes.
chillii Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 (edited) On 6/19/2021 at 5:44 AM, cleverusername said: Tell them you are planning a horseback riding and need to know their weight. If it is way off from what it looks like, just flake Haaaa, that's a tall one don't think she'd fall for that one. Besides from back in the day l still remember man if she didn't wanna tell you or show you better pics , for whatever her reason was , it was like getting blood out of stone , it was painful. Still makes me cringe. Edited June 20, 2021 by chillii 1
Saorla Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 I get how you feel. I feel the same when a guy has a good amount of hair in his profile photo but when we meet there are significantly less trees in his forest 1
chillii Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 Haaaa , less trees in the forest. l'd never imagined that could be a thing but now that you mention it l could well see it could be.
Calmandfocused Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 6 hours ago, chillii said: Oh man , way over annualized. The last thing on the planet we're thinking about is whether she's child bearing believe me. l don't think l've ever thought that in my life. lf she's really built to our specific taste we just wannaaaa, well, yaknow. ps , skin is huge to btw , nice skin is sooooooo sexy , as are fine bones too , well to my tastes. You may not be thinking “child bearing” but instinctively you’re drawn to it. That was Gaetas point I believe. 2
chillii Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 (edited) Haaa , l know exactly what l'm drawn to and it has nothing to do with child bearing believe me, never has. ps , actually if l was that concerned about child bearing l'd go for wide hips or something haha, which is not my tastes , at all. Edited June 20, 2021 by chillii
Gaeta Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 9 hours ago, chillii said: Oh man , way over annualized. The last thing on the planet we're thinking about is whether she's child bearing believe me. This is biology 101, all that happens on an unconcious level.
chillii Posted June 20, 2021 Posted June 20, 2021 Yeah l know what ya saying , but l know how all my levels works haha.
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