Grimesss Posted June 16, 2021 Share Posted June 16, 2021 There's this girl I really like that I was involved with for a long time. We broke up, and became best friends and eventually had a falling out. She completely refuses to speak to me now. I don't even know what I did precisely over the years everything was so volatile. If this scheme of mine works I'll definitely get in couples counseling, and address the problems. So, I'm 36 fairly competent. I just started getting serious about earning money, and think I could potentially be a billionaire in ten years from investments, and the fact I'm getting real serious about cryptocurrency. I found Bitcoin early enough where I could have been a billionaire by today. Based on the dynamic with my ex if we were speaking at the time I definitely would be. She has a huge amount of influence on me, both positive and negative. I developed a real tight bond, and I can't shake it even half my life later. I was terrified when I realized I loved her and wanted marriage. Rationally I knew there was no way the relationship would work out. So, if I send a $25 mil check for her to her father's with a short letter about this being an apology for all the issues we had. Think she'd get back in touch, and be willing to go to couples counseling? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 16, 2021 Share Posted June 16, 2021 1 hour ago, Grimesss said: So, if I send a $25 mil check for her to her father's with a short letter about this being an apology for all the issues we had. Think she'd get back in touch, and be willing to go to couples counseling? No. She & her father would think that you think she is a very high priced hooker who can be bought. It's insulting. Spend your money in a much more wise fashion. Take classes at places like the Dale Carnegie institute which will teach you more about people. Therapy might not be a bad idea so you can address whatever your issues were that would otherwise be addressed in couple's counseling; specifically the terror you felt when you realized you loved her. If you need a therapist to keep a dating relationship together just end it. Marriage counseling is different; you took vows. Here you need to disconnect & move on. 1 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted June 16, 2021 Share Posted June 16, 2021 2 hours ago, Grimesss said: if I send a $25 mil check for her to her father's Is this an arranged marriage? Doesn't the wife's family provide the dowry in that case? Link to post Share on other sites
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