Daisy019 Posted June 15, 2021 Posted June 15, 2021 I have been with my boyfriend for a few years now and he knew I was fat when we got together and at first everything was fine.he wanted me to move in with him and I told him I couldn't at the time due to family issues. He wanted me to meet his family and I did finally meet two of them and after meeting them he now in the last few months has been making comments about my weight witch he never did before and now he doesn't want me to move in with him I'm confused
FMW Posted June 15, 2021 Posted June 15, 2021 It sounds like you think the family members you met have something to do with his change of attitude. Whether that's the case or not, you get to decide how you respond to his change. Ask him straight up what the deal is. If you want to lose weight for yourself, do it. But don't do it to try and keep him interested in you. If you've been a similar weight since you met, and his sudden concern is because his family said something derogatory about it, that's his problem and one that should make you seriously consider whether or not you want to be with him. 1
Wiseman2 Posted June 15, 2021 Posted June 15, 2021 8 hours ago, Daisy019 said: now he doesn't want me to move in with him Sorry this is happening. Reconsider the relationship. He seems to be tiptoeing out for some reason and insulting you is his cowardly way to get you to pull the plug first. He seems to be wasting your time.
d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2021 Posted June 15, 2021 You have been together for a "few years" & you are only now just meeting family for the 1st time? Why prior to this were you even considering living with somebody who has been keeping you a secret? This does not make sense. When he comments about your weight tell him you don't appreciate his comments. If he doesn't stop, re-evaluate the relationship. 1
ShyViolet Posted June 15, 2021 Posted June 15, 2021 I'm not sure why you think him not wanting to move in with you is directly because of your weight. The bigger issue is that you've been with him for "a few years", he wanted to move in with you earlier in the relationship and now he doesn't. He's not into this relationship anymore and it may be time to end it. Don't stay with someone who is not excited to be with you and completely committed to you. 1
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