Been location stalking this guy I just started dating via OLD location and see he's spending overnights in nearby towns. Red Flag?

[SumGuy]

16 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

Maybe he's a pizza delivery man as a side hustle, but doesn't want to tell you that. .

That makes more sense than having booty calls all over town.

I've seen enough pornos to know it is both!    He delivers more than just the pizza, bow bippa bow bow....just kidding on all of that of course. 

[d0nnivain]

So have you stopped looking?  Knowing that info was right there, I'm not sure I could resist the temptation to look.  But when a person become obsessive about it, looking is a problem.  

Unlike a lot of posters here on LS, you seem more balanced as you explain further.  Many people dig themselves deeper.  Just be careful you don't let this make you nuts.  

I'd probably end up telling the guy he has the feature enabled & I can see him.  Anybody with a brain will turn it off.  Some things you are better off not knowing about a new prospect.  It's one thing to have this on your kid or your employees but not on somebody you only went on 2 dates with.  A little mystery is a good thing while this level of technology is a bad thing.  

[Blind-Sided]

2 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

In reality, you know Zero about what he's doing or his moral compass. 

This too !!!

After my D... I was in a bad place, and I crashed at a few friends houses just because I didn't want to be alone sometimes.  It doesn't mean I was screwing anyone.  But then again... even if I was... that's my business, and not someone I may have gone a couple dates with.

[dramafreezone]

On 6/12/2021 at 10:23 AM, stillafool said:

Yes that is exactly what he is doing hooking up with random women he meets online.  Now that you know he is a F-boy you have been warned.  Are you still going to pursue him?  He's single and free so he can lead his life anyway he wants.  He probably has 2nd, 3rd dates with those women too because most women won't put out on a first date.  Since this is not what you want and are dating other men find one who wants what you want.  This one is a time waister.

Is it possible that he could have business meetings in other towns?  Or family?  It goes straight to him being a f-boy based on nothing but weak, unreliable circumstantial evidence?

[dramafreezone]

6 hours ago, d0nnivain said:

I'd probably end up telling the guy he has the feature enabled & I can see him.

And I'd surmise that she's a stalker if she mentioned it, and I'd stop seeing her.  I would not mention it at all if I were her.  She could just practice some self-discipline and not look at it.

Edited June 14, 2021 by dramafreezone

[d0nnivain]

39 minutes ago, dramafreezone said:

And I'd surmise that she's a stalker if she mentioned it, and I'd stop seeing her.  I would not mention it at all if I were her.  She could just practice some self-discipline and not look at it.

Some people may react that way.  It would be OK. 

I know myself well enough to know that I probably couldn't resist the temptation to look & I'd feel icky / gross like I was spying on him without his knowledge if I kept doing it.  I also know myself well enough to know that I could make the disclosure with enough of a sense of humor that the person wouldn't feel like I was a creepy stalker.  The delivery will sway the outcome here.  

Bottom line the OP has to figure out what's best for her.  

[Wiseman2]

7 hours ago, Blind-Sided said:

  But then again... even if I was... that's my business, and not someone I may have gone a couple dates with.

Precisely. What if he is playing Pokémon Go?