d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2021 Posted June 15, 2021 It's not about him. It's about you. You are going to be a nervous wreck. Your insecurities are going to rule the day. You will constantly be accusing him of cheating. Every little thing . . .if he texts you 5 minutes late; if he posts pictures with classmates & some of them are women. . . you are going to blow your stack on him unless you get a grip on your emotions. Eventually that will get old & tiring. He will unload on a local girl in his class & she will console him. In shore it will be a self fulfilling prophecy with you driving him away. Stop focusing on him & start owning the problems you cause. You have to be calm & super chill about his new adventure. Be excited for him but you can fret to him about your fears regarding his behavior next semester. You already know where he stands; that cheating is unacceptable. If you can't take that at face value & be happy for him, you will destroy this relationship with your suspicions & out of control behavior.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 16, 2021 Posted June 16, 2021 18 hours ago, Glx said: will it really be that bad? I think this is moot by now, honestly. He sounds done and over with this relationship, deep-down.
Wiseman2 Posted June 16, 2021 Posted June 16, 2021 Any guy who makes you cry, is not worth crying over. It's that simple.
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