HopelessNick Posted June 11, 2021 Posted June 11, 2021 I haven't seen this girl (college friend) for a few years. I messaged her this. "I saw a replay of the First Dates episode where the chick drinks red wine and spills it down her chin. I immediately thought of the time that we watched it together. Do you remember that?" Is that creepy?
Author HopelessNick Posted June 11, 2021 Author Posted June 11, 2021 33 minutes ago, Gaeta said: Just say Hello how have you been? Too late haha. But that's boring
ShyViolet Posted June 11, 2021 Posted June 11, 2021 That's a pretty weird thing to randomly text someone out of the blue who you haven't talked to in a long time, yes. I wouldn't call it creepy, but it's just a little weird. 3
Gaeta Posted June 11, 2021 Posted June 11, 2021 I feel your message was meant with someone you were familiar with. It's been a few years since you last spoke so you are no more on familiar terms. Did she reply?
Wiseman2 Posted June 11, 2021 Posted June 11, 2021 3 hours ago, HopelessNick said: I haven't seen this girl (college friend) for a few years. I messaged her this. "I saw a replay of the First Dates episode where the chick drinks red wine and spills it down her chin. I immediately thought of the time that we watched it together. Do you remember that?" Is that creepy? Did she reply or block you? That would be a good indicator if she thought it was funny or creepy.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 11, 2021 Posted June 11, 2021 3 hours ago, HopelessNick said: Too late haha. But that's boring No, it's not. It's approrpriate when you have not seen or spoken to someone for a long time.
SumGuy Posted June 11, 2021 Posted June 11, 2021 Well if she has thought of you in a positive way over the years it is fine, otherwise, yah could be creepy and certainly viewed as weird, and even WTF if she has a boyfriend etc. and they see it and start wondering what is up. 1
Ami1uwant Posted June 12, 2021 Posted June 12, 2021 (edited) May be she didn’t intend to text you..... on my phone somehow the number for a co worker of mine and a car repair place I regularly go to got crossed so text messages from that business shows up as under her name. Edited June 12, 2021 by Ami1uwant
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