3 was supposed to be the charm! and was. almost)

[Interstellar]

so this girl didn’t give you an answer, disappeared then out of the blue she replied. all girls are glued to their phones nowadays and she can’t even give you 4 seconds of her time to reply and say: I’m going on a trip but I’ll talk to you when I get back. she ain’t gonna win the miss manners award anytime soon. you should’ve dropped her right there. hah, she was probably bored since she doesn’t have any dates lined up that day. it’s great that you made her laugh and had a great time at the restaurant but when you asked her to go to the bar after you spent two hours in the restaurant was a major booboo. you gotta leave them wanting more. a little mystery. this girl is out from the beginning anyway, don’t waste anymore of your time and energy with her. block and delete. when they like you, they help you.

 she’s gorgeous that’s why and she has pulled this on thousands of other guys. it’s great that you’re thinking. never let them see you bleed and always have a back up plan.

[chillii]

You sound so rehearsed and internet, l mean you made her laugh for 3hrs , man do you really work that hard and artificially l'm exhausted just thinking about it. lf two people laugh you don't have to make each other laugh it just happens let alone one of them at it for 3hrs. Same with your messages , straight out of some dating manual.

Too try hard , that'll only get you through the night but her just saying oh that was nice , adios. lt wasn't real, it was just a nice night, she knows that .

Relax, don't work, let it find itself if it's going to .

Edited June 13, 2021 by chillii

[Dull Hargraves]

1 hour ago, chillii said:

You sound so rehearsed and internet, l mean you made her laugh for 3hrs , man do you really work that hard and artificially l'm exhausted just thinking about it. lf two people laugh you don't have to make each other laugh it just happens let alone one of them at it for 3hrs. Same with your messages , straight out of some dating manual.

Too try hard , that'll only get you through the night but her just saying oh that was nice , adios. lt wasn't real, it was just a nice night, she knows that .

Relax, don't work, let it find itself if it's going to .

Perhaps I use that phrase too much.  What I mean when I say I made her laugh for 3 hours is that we had a great conversation, laughed a lot etc. that aspect of the date couldn’t have gone better.  She also made me laugh a lot.  When 2 people can effortlessly converse like that it’s usually a good sign.  I thoroughly enjoyed sitting and talking with her and I think in the moment it was reciprocal. I’m not sure what messages you are referring to.