Why arent women shorter than me satisfied with my height?

[CrimsonPheonix33]

I'm a 5'4 man and a lot of women my height or taller aren't interested in my height, which I think is fair, but a lot of women shorter than me think i'm too short as well. The majority of them want men that are 5'10 and taller. Its strange because even the women under 5'1 usually do as well, I don't really get it. A few extremely short women even said to me that i'm not tall enough, but do you think that its because they are also insecure so they aren't confident enough to be with men that aren't tall?

[Gaeta]

I'm sorry but it's not entirely about how taller you are to these women but it's how shorter you will appear to everyne else. I know it sucks, I am not saying I approve this, just saying how it is for some women. 

Fortunately not all women think like that. My neighbour is a young man late 20s and he's probably 5'4'' maybe 5'3''. His girlfriend is a cutie probably of 5' foot tall top and they have a beautiful baby. Be patient and resiliant.

[CrimsonPheonix33]

31 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

I'm sorry but it's not entirely about how taller you are to these women but it's how shorter you will appear to everyne else. I know it sucks, I am not saying I approve this, just saying how it is for some women. 

Fortunately not all women think like that. My neighbour is a young man late 20s and he's probably 5'4'' maybe 5'3''. His girlfriend is a cutie probably of 5' foot tall top and they have a beautiful baby. Be patient and resiliant.

Yeah I kind of got that feeling, I'm shorter than about like 97% of men so I guess it is what it is. I dont think i've ever really seen young short men be with any women. Usually short guys get married much later and enter relationships much later for reasons stated in this thread. Theres a good amount of short guys that are in their 40s still not married because its a pain in the ass for us 

[CollinW]

If you're short you're going to have to compensate height with swag. You better head out your door every day walking like Conor McGregor. 

[chillii]

And look like another try hard total tool reading too many internet how too's and trying to be something he's not . Be yourself op , that's the person your partner will be falling in love with and last .

l dunno wtf you think your seeing, shorter men marring later or not finding relationships , wtf . Won't bother repeating everything said over and over by 100s of people in every new short guy thread here every few days. Why aren't you reading the 100s of those . Same answers in all them. Never known a shorter guy womanless or not married bc of height .

Edited June 9, 2021 by chillii

[glows]

It doesn't matter. Focus on all the other areas that count like your personality and character and the rest will fall into place. There are superficial individuals in every group or walk of life so ignore all that and do your thing.

[Allupinnit]

That's like asking why men don't like fat women, or women with short hair, or women who are too loud and opinionated.  People like what they like, some characteristics are just more desirable overall than others.

[ShyViolet]

They are just not that into you.  They are probably using the height as their excuse.  You just haven't found the right person yet.

[Fletch Lives]

18 hours ago, ShyViolet said:

They are probably using the height as their excuse.  

yup.

 

I'm 6 foot and normally would not pursue somebody under 5'3" - I'd break my neck trying to kiss her. There are lots of wonderful short women, they must be dating somebody.