StellarCat Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and everything was totally fine until last night. We've told each other how we feel, and we were on the same page. I'm totally in love with him and I know he loves me. However last night, everything kind of fell apart because I acted like an idiot. We had a few people over his house and we were all drinking. I had a bit too much to drink and one of his neighbors brought her friend over. Well, I got really jealous. Looking at it now, I had no reason to be, but I was. Anyway, without going into too much detail, I totally embarrassed myself and him in the process. I made a bit of a scene and feel so bad. After everything happened, I apologized and as far as I know everything is ok with his friends and all. However, he's REALLY mad at me. He told me he wants to take some time and see how he feels in a few days. I am so scared. I apologized to him about 5,000 times, and I called everyone today and apologized again. For the most part, his friends said no big deal, don't worry about it. I'm sure everyone has gotten drunk and done something stupid and I believe that everyone deserves a second chance. I just don't know if he's going to get over this. Just this past week, he started talking about having me move in and he said that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Then today he said that he thought we were moving too fast and that we needed the time apart and that he needs to reevaluate his feelings for me. I'm so sad and confused and I feel so guilty. Is there anything I can do to fix this?
questionsforyall Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and everything was totally fine until last night. We've told each other how we feel, and we were on the same page. I'm totally in love with him and I know he loves me. However last night, everything kind of fell apart because I acted like an idiot. We had a few people over his house and we were all drinking. I had a bit too much to drink and one of his neighbors brought her friend over. Well, I got really jealous. Looking at it now, I had no reason to be, but I was. Anyway, without going into too much detail, I totally embarrassed myself and him in the process. I made a bit of a scene and feel so bad. After everything happened, I apologized and as far as I know everything is ok with his friends and all. However, he's REALLY mad at me. He told me he wants to take some time and see how he feels in a few days. I am so scared. I apologized to him about 5,000 times, and I called everyone today and apologized again. For the most part, his friends said no big deal, don't worry about it. I'm sure everyone has gotten drunk and done something stupid and I believe that everyone deserves a second chance. I just don't know if he's going to get over this. Just this past week, he started talking about having me move in and he said that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. Then today he said that he thought we were moving too fast and that we needed the time apart and that he needs to reevaluate his feelings for me. I'm so sad and confused and I feel so guilty. Is there anything I can do to fix this? If he really likes you he should come around. I've done way worse than what your saying and everytime the girls seem to go sleep with my best friend, then again none of them have ever told me but thats what I'm assuming what happened... Its ****ty. Try not to stress about it to much... But if you can't get over it and you do stress out about it, try drinking
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