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He showed up to our first date in an old hoodie and cap!


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Hoodie guy was like a week ago.  You must've really liked him to still be talking about him.

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1 minute ago, dramafreezone said:

Hoodie guy was like a week ago.  You must've really liked him to still be talking about him.

No, not liking him, feeling guilt toward dropping him. I haven't talked about him for a while, l've been talking about my new dates.

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On 6/6/2021 at 12:01 AM, chillii said:

The man with but one hoodie , but eh he seems to be very fond of it. My hoodie🖕

My mistake , l see he had two hoodies , he's fond of both then haha.

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6 hours ago, Gaeta said:

No, not liking him, feeling guilt toward dropping him. I haven't talked about him for a while, l've been talking about my new dates.

3 in a wk , at this rate you'll break your 200 record.

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On 6/5/2021 at 1:53 PM, dramafreezone said:

Well, that's just because that's the way the brain works.  It's the idea of the self-fulfilling prophecy.  If we think that something won't work out then we'll look for reasons for it not to work out.  Our brain can only act in accordance with the information that we provide to it.

To disprove this all you have to do is look at the relationships where you thought the guy checked every box and he still disappointed you.  Relationships are just difficult overall.  Every man is going to have turnoffs or red flags, so it's just about finding a good overall balance and accepting flaws.

I think it can work this way but most of the time it ended by the guy cheating or ghosting etc etc

 

Not things that I was just being picky about 

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1 hour ago, Dis said:

I think it can work this way but most of the time it ended by the guy cheating or ghosting etc etc

 

Not things that I was just being picky about 

Yep no way , your instincts were just spot on to begin with

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6 hours ago, chillii said:

3 in a wk , at this rate you'll break your 200 record.

Ya! I know eh!  So l hid my profile yesterday so l can give a bit of time to my 2 current prospects.

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Bald? 👴. At least it wasn't the underwear hanging out of the drooping pants look. 👖 Hope that fad is over.

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I used to dress up more for first meets - I used to wear a sports jacket. I quit doing that however.....the sports jacket is not very practical..... the arms get into the food at dinner, and if I take it off, I forget it and lose it.

 

So now I just wear a spotless white Polo shirt, blue jeans (no holes), and shinny black dress shoes. (I'm in the tropics).

 

(Whatever you do guys, never wear flipflops with socks, lol!)

 

I need to get my wing woman friend to go cloths shopping with me and help me pick some stuff out, perhaps?

 

By the way, I had to get a new wing woman - because I'm dating my original wing woman, lol! It's like that movie Some Kind Of Wonderful. So funny. 

 

I had a long drive so I wore some old sneakers but brought my shinny black dress shoes along - I had planned on changing shoes when I got there.....but I was so excited, I forgot, lol

 

We were all over each other for 6 hours - it was the best first meet I've ever had. Wonderful.

 

At the end of the date she asked me to kiss her softly.......I did and it was a great kiss....... after the kiss, she said, "That was not supposed to happen!" Then she said, "You are a good kisser!" 

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7 hours ago, Fletch Lives said:

I just wear a spotless white Polo shirt, blue jeans (no holes), and shinny black dress shoes. (I'm in the tropics).

No Fletch. All wrong. Aloha shirts and moccasins no socks.

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