ClassLady Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Not really looking for advice but would love to hear your responses. I was in a marriage that was not good. He was emotionally and verbally abusive. I ended up having an affair. I know it was wrong to do this and against everything I believed in but trust me he had already had several. Again, not that that is an excuse. Long story short, my husband found out and I had to make a choice. I never gave it a second thought as I knew exactly what I wanted. I ended up getting a divorce and marrying the man I had an affair with. It was the best thing I ever did and it goes to show that there can be a happy ending.
JayKay Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Well, sometimes you beat the odds! I personally don't know too many people who had a successful marriage as a result of an affair. Maybe others here will have similar stories...
newbby Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 i think it is more likely that women have affairs as a way out of an unhappy marriage. some men do but the majority of men who have affairs are cakeman types.
Hot Coco Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 Was your guy a MM? It doesn't sound like he was. Your case does sound like it's one of those rare ones that could work out. Not the typical scenario. It doesn't sound like you're a cake woman either.
Author ClassLady Posted October 18, 2005 Author Posted October 18, 2005 No, he had never been married before. I have 2 children and they are grown. It was a little tough at first but now they very close. We have been together 9 years and married 4.
Katch22 Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 That is awesome to hear!! And yes to Coco it doesn't sound like a cake eater story. It sounds like you were looking for LOVE and found your MR. RIGHT but unfortunately the rest of find the CAKE EATERS!!
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