cj_gal Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 OK..in my last post I told you about my new b/f and that we both found out his ex was 2 months pregnant..OK...today everything kinda blew up and was laid out on the table..basically he felt like i was pressuring him to make a decision between us....he lives in her house with her parents..I did no such thing...all i asked is if he was planning on moving out...wouldn't any g/f ask this if she cared at all.. He said he still had feelings for her..but he didn't know what he was going to do..her father knows now..but said not to tell her mom yet...so he waits..here i am..waiting also.. ..it sucks...we met and talked and the sad thing is we both don't want to let each other go..He told me that he wasn't ready to settle down with anyone and said i didn't love him...so what is the point ..our relationship is NEW...you don't love someone over night..I was not the one who asked him out and when he thought i was going to leave him when i found out about the pregnancy..he cried and said over and over i don't want you to leave me... I asked him if we could go back to right before everything started...he said he didn't think this could be done...I agreed to accept his ex and the baby with dating him..and things changed...his entire attitude changed..like a cloud lifted off our relationship...he agreed...he wants to date me..no one else..but i just feel that i can't handle her having that baby in his house.. I also got invited to spring break with a guy friend of mine who lives down south..do i go..do i wait and ask the guy i'm seeing..how is this all going to work?
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