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I'm a guy with kids: dating issue?


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I believe that should be "cease" and not "sieze"

 

No sieze,, cause you sieze me at times. I sit utterly dumbfounded by some of your comments. You grab me; take me, Not stop me..

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MA- Gosh, so glad to see you baby! :love:

 

Whether or not one has children is a personal choice, IMO. It's not for everyone certainly. That being said, if you have them, male or female be prepared to go above and beyond for them!

 

By the way, both of my kids were planned pregnancies and I've never not one day ever regretted having them! :love:

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No sieze,, cause you sieze me at times. I sit utterly dumbfounded by some of your comments. You grab me; take me, Not stop me..

 

It's SEIZE.

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It's SEIZE.

 

Thanks.. I before the E except after the C. hahaha

 

Yes it is seize.

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Thanks.. I before the E except after the C. hahaha

 

Yes it is seize.

 

But ALPHA was right though... painful as that can be... it is "cease to amaze." :p

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But ALPHA was right though... painful as that can be... it is "cease to amaze." :p

 

Please don't give him that credit.. hahaha I dare to be different..

Cease is to stop--right?

Seize is to capture--right?

 

He captures me every time he shows the softer side of himself. He doesnt stop me.

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Please don't give him that credit.. hahaha I dare to be different..

Cease is to stop--right?

Seize is to capture--right?

 

He captures me every time he shows the softer side of himself. He doesnt stop me.

 

LOL! :D

 

You are correct about "cease" and "seize." :)

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LOL! :D

 

You are correct about "cease" and "seize." :)

 

 

;):cool: point...

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Okay, totally didn't intend this thread to take the direction it did... but oh well.

 

LittleKitty, what you said makes a lot of sense. With this woman (I'll call her "J"), we've never met or spoken on the phone. Spent about 2.5 hours last night IM'ing (she has a webcam, I don't). She's 25 (I'm 33), eastern European, and she initiated the original contact. We really seem to hit it off, electronically at least. I've done the online dating thing quite a bit in the past, enough to know that the likelihood is pretty good that it'll translate well into face-to-face.

 

We have a tentative plan to get together on Saturday, with a phone call or two between now and then. I think I've pretty much decided to bring up the kids thing next time we speak/IM/whatever (assuring her as I do that the kids already have a mother so I'm not shopping for a new one for them). I honestly don't know if that'll end things or not; she seems to be fairly into me, so as long as I present the kids thing in as non-threatening a way as possible (realizing of course that it's a pretty significant thing!), I'll have done the best I can in the circumstances. And if she's not cool with that, well... better to find out now than later. Not just for her, but for me too.

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I agree with you, the sooner she knows atleast you'll know if things can proceed or not. Neither of you want to be emotionally attached and then break up due to finding out about kids from the previous marriage.

 

Hope it works out!

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