HavocDaWolf Posted May 25, 2021 Posted May 25, 2021 I’ve known her for 3 months. She has been dealing with someone back home but he hasn’t been paying her attention as he was when she was back home ( we are deployed lol) We started working out together 1 day a week. And about 2 weeks ago, she told me that she was attracted to me. I felt the same and we started sleeping together. We been hanging out a lot more and all of the sudden that energy isn’t there anymore. We haven’t gotten into an argument or anything. She just came in one morning and her whole mood towards me been different. I asked her about it and she said that she gets in these moods when she doesn’t want to be bothered ( PMSing) it’s been 2 days and she has been on and off. Last time we been together was 2 days ago. And we did have a conversation about her guy back home and she said she was over him and have mentally moved on. Any help here is appreciated. Especially women advice on what can be going on. And if PMS really does this to women lol.
d0nnivain Posted May 25, 2021 Posted May 25, 2021 Oh good Lord. If you are in the US military review the regs & the UCMJ that prohibits fraternization. Sleeping with a fellow member of the military in your chain of command is a COURT MARTIAL offense. You could end up in Levenworth. Leave her alone. I am serious. If you don't believe me talk to the JAG attached to your unit.
d0nnivain Posted May 25, 2021 Posted May 25, 2021 Just be really careful. You do not want a MST case brought against you by her.
d0nnivain Posted May 25, 2021 Posted May 25, 2021 OK. That makes me feel better. She may just be out of sorts. She knows where to find you so let her come to you. Say hello & be civil when you see her but don't push.
mark clemson Posted May 26, 2021 Posted May 26, 2021 Most relationships end, so keep that in mind. She may be thinking along the lines Donnivain was WRT to risk. She may also feel guilty if she was cheating on her BF with you and/or wondering what to do now WRT to that. Yes, give her her space. She may simply lose interest in you. These things happen and there are other fish in the sea, so be respectful of her wishes if that happens.
Wiseman2 Posted May 26, 2021 Posted May 26, 2021 Are you both in other relationships back home? Her moods may be related to what's going on with the hometown BF.
Author HavocDaWolf Posted May 26, 2021 Author Posted May 26, 2021 I’m not. She was dating someone for a month prior to coming here.
Donnas Posted May 26, 2021 Posted May 26, 2021 Rather you are in the army or no, she is not single.And she got issues with her man and is seeking a shoulder to cry on. Stop entertaining her. No more workouts toghater. She needs to breakup,heal from the breakup before she drag someone new into her life . You gonna get hurt now or later.So move on before its happen.Many singles out there.✌
d0nnivain Posted May 26, 2021 Posted May 26, 2021 7 hours ago, HavocDaWolf said: I’m not. She was dating someone for a month prior to coming here. Not much of a foundation there. I still say let her come to you.
kgcolonel Posted May 26, 2021 Posted May 26, 2021 You said that she told you that "mentally, she was over him". This would suggest that he doesn't know that she's over him and that he doesn't know about what she's doing while deployed. If that is the case, sounds like she's looking for a temporary fix to whatever is going on with herself. I'd be careful with my feelings growing for her.
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