Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 I wasted a couple years of my life pining over someone who i completely fell in love with .. we were not together for that long but i loved them more than anything i couldn't get over it... i couldn't stop thinkng about it or watnig them back or getting sad about it i had no self control and for nearly 2 years! i spent being sad over it.. then i just thought enough is enough.. i deleted all their pictures removed everything that reminded me of them and after a couple weeks ive already forgotten about them and don't even care and realised they weren't that great after all. LOL gosh. i'm so silly.
Wiseman2 Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 Why not do yourself a favor and see a physician about the moods, anxiety, ruminating and obsessing? This isn't about someone you dated long ago. This is about being stuck in a negative loop. Get an evaluation and a referral to a qualified therapist for ongoing support.
Sun Seeker Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 3rd topic about your ex? Really? Time to seek professional help as you clearly need it. 1
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 4 minutes ago, Punterxx said: 3rd topic about your ex? Really? Time to seek professional help as you clearly need it. Nah it's okay I'm over it now. I realised this. I spent a couple years being obsessed ,depressed and pining over them but now i dont care its ok.
Wiseman2 Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 1 minute ago, LoopyLoop99 said: I spent a couple years being obsessed ,depressed and pining over them but now i dont care its ok. Ok great. So what's going on with your life now? Are you dating again? What is "them"? Your ex and what else?
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 1 minute ago, Wiseman2 said: Ok great. So what's going on with your life now? Are you dating again? What is "them"? Your ex and what else? no i meant my ex,, god i feel like such an idiot! 2 years nearly spend obsessing over them watning them back, hoping they would re connect nah i'm just single but im ok i dont feel lonely except sometimes.
Wiseman2 Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 1 hour ago, LoopyLoop99 said: 2 years nearly spend obsessing over them watning them back, hoping they would..... Is this a same sex relationship? It's unclear why you won't date anyone else.
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 26 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Is this a same sex relationship? It's unclear why you won't date anyone else. what? I explained after the break up i went on dates, i slept around but all it did was make me feel miserable and miss them more so i took a break then covid hit. i haven't dated or been close to anyone for a long time. Sometimes i randomly get sad and miss the time s of 2 years ago but other times i feel fine. but i realise now they aren't that good and i shouldn't be so sad over it.
Wiseman2 Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 It seems you are idealizing "the one who got away". But think of it logically. Why would you make someone who dumped you the benchmark for the future?
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 1 minute ago, Wiseman2 said: It seems you are idealizing "the one who got away". But think of it logically. Why would you make someone who dumped you the benchmark for the future? They were a terrific person but i was an idiot, selfish, thought i was amazing and didn't invest in them.. then they cheated on me and left me and i've been stuck on that negative guilt for so long but then i realised something if i actaully got to know them i'd realise that i actually wouldn't want a relatiionship with them.. it was a superifical relationship
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 do you guys ever forgve yourself for stuffing it up with someone you loved? god i was such an immature, stupid kid with her such a boy she wanted a man f*** i was pathetic.
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 i wish i could go back 2 years ago and be with her. god i miss her i miss you babe.
Fletch Lives Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 Time. Eventually you'll get over her. Time heals all wounds
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 33 minutes ago, Fletch Lives said: Time. Eventually you'll get over her. Time heals all wounds they were the best gf ill ever have
Wiseman2 Posted May 28, 2021 Posted May 28, 2021 Just now, LoopyLoop99 said: they were the best gf ill ever have You haven't had one since. You're stuck in an obsessive loop but refuse to see a physician. That's not on her. 1
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 28, 2021 Author Posted May 28, 2021 17 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: You haven't had one since. You're stuck in an obsessive loop but refuse to see a physician. That's not on her. I've actually seen a counsellor no need to be so mean
Author LoopyLoop99 Posted May 29, 2021 Author Posted May 29, 2021 i think im finally moving on.. took me nearly 2 years to get over it but meditation and complete no contact has helped.
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