genericwhitemale Posted May 22, 2021 Posted May 22, 2021 I have very low self-esteem, and I friend of mine, whom I met in counseling knows about it. She can't even look at me when I say bad things about myself. She is pretty affectionate (loves of rubbing my arms and stuff) and tells me I'm 'pretty great.' She has told me that one day I will meet someone who loves me every day. Are these signs She could love me? 1
basil67 Posted May 22, 2021 Posted May 22, 2021 No, these are not signs of love. Rather, she's trying to help build your self esteem.
Wiseman2 Posted May 22, 2021 Posted May 22, 2021 (edited) 4 hours ago, genericwhitemale said: I met in counseling . Huge no-no to hit on someone in group therapy. Consider this a friendship only. Talk to the therapist privately about your feelings. Edited May 22, 2021 by Wiseman2 1
Boobita Posted June 4, 2021 Posted June 4, 2021 On 5/22/2021 at 7:58 AM, genericwhitemale said: I have very low self-esteem, and I friend of mine, whom I met in counseling knows about it. She can't even look at me when I say bad things about myself. She is pretty affectionate (loves of rubbing my arms and stuff) and tells me I'm 'pretty great.' She has told me that one day I will meet someone who loves me every day. Are these signs She could love me? You never know. Sometimes, girls may be very friendly to you, but then....they can be just friends from their side. You can only know if you ask her, but don't take her too seriously till then. All the best. 1
dramafreezone Posted June 5, 2021 Posted June 5, 2021 On 5/21/2021 at 7:28 PM, genericwhitemale said: I have very low self-esteem, and I friend of mine, whom I met in counseling knows about it. She can't even look at me when I say bad things about myself. She is pretty affectionate (loves of rubbing my arms and stuff) and tells me I'm 'pretty great.' She has told me that one day I will meet someone who loves me every day. Are these signs She could love me? She is trying to be a good friend to you but that doesn't mean she has romantic interest in you. It's tough for any woman to be sexually attracted to someone with low self-esteem. Keep working on yourself, learn to value what you bring to the table. I would even say you need to start to think a bit in an arrogant way. You need balancing out.
yeast Posted June 9, 2021 Posted June 9, 2021 Definitely No signs of love, she's helping you build up your self-esteem and personally I think her physical affections are just a way to show that she's going to always be by your side (Basically let you become more comfortable and relaxed around her so you aren't always insecure).
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