She (31F) invited me (31M) to a date and dumped me. What have I done wrong? Should I do something and what?

[someonej]

I met this girl in a company (friend of a friend) and we got a lot of fun, she was next to me all the time, there was a lot of chemistry and we slipped away from the others and went to another bar, we danced, kissed, got a lot of fun and laughs. After that we went for a dinner, both ware very hungry, then she asked me to go with her to her place. I did. In the taxi she asked me just to leave her at her place. I agreed of course, she gave me her phone number and asked me very insistently to call her the next day. I kissed her goodbye, and went away. I was not really hopeful about all this:people on parties drink. Anyway I was busy and was thinking to call her in the afternoon. But she actually called me first (I was going to a business meeting) and we talked till I was on my appointment, she invited me to a date, she was very cute and charming on the phone. After my business meeting I went with my business partner (fine looking woman) to a store just for few mins AND in the same time my date entered the store by accident. She was really quick to leave after a brief chat, she was upset to see me with the other woman. Late that night she called me again and we talked for 40 minutes about the date for tomorrow and few times she tried to get to know who the lady was. So I calmed her that she is just a business partner. Anyway, we agreed that next day we will call each other to set the place. After work I called her but no answer. I got a message: Still at work, she called me hours later (after 20 PM) and told me she will have dinner and we may go for a drink or I'm going to join her. She was far away and I told her that will go the bar and wait her there. She agreed and told me that she will be there in 30 mins.1 hour passed. So I rung her phone, nothing, rung again - nothing. After 3 hours I got a text: was with my parents. I rung her and she told me just: was with my patents. So I asked why she called me if she as not available. She just hang up. Rung her last time. Nothing. This was yesterday.

[d0nnivain]

She got jealous.  then you made last minute plans.  She got busy / distracted.  It was rude of not to cancel when she realized she was tied up but assuming you would still like to date her overlook it this once.  Call & ask for another date but give her 2-3 days notice.  If she does it again, write her off as rude.  

[Marc878]

Let this one go. You won’t lose a thing.

[ShyViolet]

Your post is a little confusing but if I understand this correctly, you went on one date with this woman, it went well, and then she stood you up for the second date?  The title of this post is misleading, she didn't "dump" you.  She stood you up and is now ghosting you.  Obviously this woman is no longer interested, and she's rude.  She's also crazy if this was all set off by the fact that she saw you with a female business partner.  Forget about this woman and move on.

[Gaeta]

Don't call back people that hang up on you. You already know she's disrespectful, passive-agressive, and a bad communicator. 

[someonej]

3 hours ago, ShyViolet said:

Your post is a little confusing but if I understand this correctly, you went on one date with this woman, it went well, and then she stood you up for the second date?  The title of this post is misleading, she didn't "dump" you.  She stood you up and is now ghosting you.  Obviously this woman is no longer interested, and she's rude.  She's also crazy if this was all set off by the fact that she saw you with a female business partner.  Forget about this woman and move on.

Yes, sorry, its more precise to tell that she stood me up on the second date, after she invited me herself. So I don't understand it, why she even invited me... Maybe I was some kind of an option for her, maybe she misunderstood something, maybe she actually got a boyfriend, maybe there was somebody else, I don't know and will probably never know. I just naturally try to make sense of all this, but maybe there is no sense and she was just insane, or on drugs, or who knows... Anyway I can't feel ok with what happened, really liked her and even thought she might be worth it so I tried to treat her with respect. But, probably she did no worth it.