Helenash Posted May 12, 2021 Posted May 12, 2021 He broke up with me, we got so bad and toxic and we would constantly argue, I would have a problem and he would have a problem. He became distant but he used to love me so much and now I’m hurting. I called him today and we spoke and he still said he doesn’t want me as he’s not happy. No matter what I always tried to fulfil his needs and I am blaming myself and thinking I’m so bad and a bad girlfriend. I wasn’t perfect and neither was he but I don’t want him to associate me with unhappiness we haven’t spoken after the breakup as he blocked me and kept on doing it when I tried to talk and call. I am just so hurt that he said that. I don’t know what to say to him or how to text him that’s what I need help with. he used to be my best friend and then we started arguing and I feel so bad as I have no one apart from him. but it just didn’t work as it started to be one sided, he expected trust when he would go out and not answer my calls and texts all night and I would go crazy and call him
d0nnivain Posted May 12, 2021 Posted May 12, 2021 Go NC for your own sanity. Him blocking you is a good thing. Stop chasing him to preserve your dignity. He can't help you though this. He's your EX. Grieve the break up but move forward He is now part of your past. Do take some time to reflect on what went wrong in your relationship so you can avoid those mistakes in your next relationship. . 1
Light Breeze Posted May 12, 2021 Posted May 12, 2021 Sorry this relationship is done. Your ex going NC is a pretty good indication that he's out. Go NC like your ex and start to heal. I know, right now it seems impossible but the pain you feel will go away and you will be happy again. Meanwhile, take care of yourself and your health. If you can, try counselling because I can tell you through experience that it really helps.
Miss Peach Posted May 12, 2021 Posted May 12, 2021 I'm on the other side of this sort of thing. He's doing NC to try to get you to move on. If you talk he's likely to hurt you and/or reject you again which will hurt more. You need to go out and try to make some new friends, reach out to anyone else you have for support, etc.
ShyViolet Posted May 14, 2021 Posted May 14, 2021 There's nothing to say to him. You have to accept this breakup and stop trying to contact him. Leave him alone and move on.
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