My boyfriend broke up with me and blocked me after an argument.

[Helenash]

So here’s the backstory, me and my boyfriend got into a big argument where we both said hurtful stuff and I started saying it as I was fed up of him saying it to me and he said I disrespected him. Even though he does it to me first all the time and this time I was so angry. 
he blocked me and broke up with me on the spot telling me to f*** off, and ignoring all my calls. I went to his football game like I was going to go anyway the same day and he seemed happy to see me and when he got home he said he was just pretending in front of the people and proceeded to tell me he doesn’t want me. And blocked me. Yesterday he went out with his mates and didn’t talk to me all day ignored my calls etc. I saw him on the way home at night in the car with his mates he was under the influence I’m guessing, he told me to f*** off as I went over to their car, and started a full on argument in front of his mates callimg me names. It was humiliating. Today he didn’t speak to me, we work together he didn’t even look at me. But this time I didn’t try to walk up and beg him. What is best to do in this situation? I know I shouldn’t have disrespected him and I told him that I did it as he was doing it, like always but he plays victim. I try to talk and he will block me and tell me to f*** off. Three days went by, today I have fully not spoken to him at all. I am hurting and I know he will try to be with his bad influence mates today

this type of behaviour has been happening for a month now. He will get angry and block me for the night and in the morning apolagise or message me but now it’s not the same. 
I may be too clingy but that’s only as he won’t communicate with me and I don’t know what to do. 

[hippychick3]

He sounds like a total loser. Why do you want to be with him after he treated you so badly and verbally abused you in front of his friends?

[Wiseman2]

15 minutes ago, Helenash said:

he blocked me and broke up with me on the spot telling me to f*** off, 

I saw him on the way home at night in the car with his mates he was under the influence I’m guessing, he told me to f*** off as I went over to their car

I try to talk and he will block me and tell me to f*** off.

Talk to a trusted adult relative, parent, teacher, counselor, etc., about this.

Read up on abusive relationships and dating red flags. Google "red flags for teen dating".

Ask your parents to take you to a doctor so you can speak about your moods privately and confidentially and ask your parents to take you to a therapist to learn healthier coping skills and how to improve your self esteem and avoid abusive dating situations like this.

You need to permanently delete and block him and ALL his people from ALL your social media and messaging apps.

[ExpatInItaly]

Why do you even give this jerk the time of day? 

This is an abusive relationship, OP. 

 

[TeddyBundy1993]

He is treating you like trash bcz he doesn't respect and very well aware that no matter how much he disrespect you,  you will always return back to him.  You can also simply say he has taken you for granted. You need to wake yourself up and see what is going. He doesn't want you and yes you are getting clingy by going to him and continuing to contact him here and there. 

Time to forget this douchebag he has a lot to learn and you are not his momma who should take his bullshit & childish blame games.  Be strong and move on from him. Block him back ignore him back. Let his desire to live a life without you be fulfilled. You can't do much, but sure you can take control and not get yourself treated like a trash in front of others as well. It's hard since you have to see him as you work together but girl stop this humiliation.