Wiseman2 Posted May 7, 2021 Posted May 7, 2021 On 5/5/2021 at 7:35 PM, Goodguy05 said: She's got two daughters 16 and 18 and is talking of moving interstate. Sorry this happened. Her life seems too complicated and confused right now. Is her ex in the picture? As far as terms of endearment, stick with names. Some people take offense since it's too familiar and condescending. It's one meeting and it seems sort of so-so, just move forward and don't ask for another date. 1
Author Maldives Posted May 7, 2021 Author Posted May 7, 2021 35 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Sorry this happened. Her life seems too complicated and confused right now. Is her ex in the picture? As far as terms of endearment, stick with names. Some people take offense since it's too familiar and condescending. It's one meeting and it seems sort of so-so, just move forward and don't ask for another date. Yep you were on the money even though I wasn't really vibing myself I thought maybe another date so asked her for Sunday brushed me off the shoulder. Should of listened to my gut. Her ex husband is in Vietnam so not in the picture. Learnt my lesson try and have more than one option when dating lol and just keep moving forward till you meet someone you connect with even if your low on dates like me be strong and tie it up if it's not happening. 1
chillii Posted May 7, 2021 Posted May 7, 2021 20 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: Thanks all for the feedback. Great points to. I responded back I guess with a haha and an emoji and then she replies with I use to be sweet ten yra ago but not now lol it was definatley way off what we all thought lol. She was referring to her personality wow just goes to show how way off we can be or me in this case..but he's won't use that term ever again lol. Nah , that's exactly what l thought she was getting at when l read it but more only in a humorist sort of way but of course half there too , none of us are as sweet as we once were. Anyway , just feel it out man if you are interested, go out again if she wants too , it'll all show you what you need to know. The kids yeah , understandable, back in the day l sorted that one out before l even got on the phone. lt was one or none for me.Good luck anyway. 1
Stupidkupid Posted May 7, 2021 Posted May 7, 2021 20 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: Thanks all for the feedback. Great points to. I responded back I guess with a haha and an emoji and then she replies with I use to be sweet ten yra ago but not now lol it was definatley way off what we all thought lol. She was referring to her personality wow just goes to show how way off we can be or me in this case..but he's won't use that term ever again lol. Haha, I'm not a fan of pet names in long term relationships let alone after the first date. If you'd have sent me that I'd have cringed until I exploded... then text to say I wasn't sure we would work out. But we aren't all the same and that is both the beauty and frustration of dating! 1
Stupidkupid Posted May 7, 2021 Posted May 7, 2021 13 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: Ye totally agree that's what put a little dampener on the date for me. I guess for me I'm in a good place I'm a lil lonely sometimes but a lot of positive things working for me in my life I do think that, perhaps, she was just trying to be open with you about her situation. But she isn't for you. Feeling lonely isn't fun but I'm sure you'll find someone that sticks for you, when the time is right. 2
smackie9 Posted May 7, 2021 Posted May 7, 2021 (edited) 15 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: Ye totally agree that's what put a little dampener on the date for me. I guess for me I'm in a good place I'm a lil lonely sometimes but a lot of positive things working for me in my life Well then keep going forward with things positive. Don't invite negativity or unnecessary challenges into you life. Look for fun, upbeat, and availability. Don't reshape your direction/opinion just to be with someone. Edited May 7, 2021 by smackie9 2
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