chillii Posted May 9, 2021 Posted May 9, 2021 Funny, didn't know there were yellow flags to these days jezuzzz, it's a mess out there. There'll probably be a form soon , flags and boxes and ticks and crosses and all colour coded with columns all over the place. Anyway , just seems like a still on good terms with an ex thing atm , 12mths they could've gotten back if they wanted to. l wouldn't put much in in just yet. Talk to him more about her and what happened and whatever if your worried , see what he's got to say and how he seems.
Alfano Posted May 9, 2021 Posted May 9, 2021 On 5/4/2021 at 5:52 PM, Gaeta said: I have never added a boyfriend on my social media, problem solved. What does this have to do with anything?
Gaeta Posted May 9, 2021 Posted May 9, 2021 3 hours ago, Alfano said: What does this have to do with anything? It has everything to do with this. Not adding a random guy you date to your social media will allow you to get to him without being caught in this game of surveying his every likes. It will also free you from following exs after you beakup, having to remove ex, having to deal with a demand to remove an ex. 1
Author Ging84 Posted May 10, 2021 Author Posted May 10, 2021 Update: Today I looked at her page for the first time since I last posted (I know I shouldn’t have) and last week she had shared an old post with pics of a trip to Europe from a few years ago (she wasn’t in any of them) he “liked” that post. Then this past weekend she put up a post saying that her cat passed away and he commented with a sad face. I guess that’s perfectly acceptable considering but I guess just seeing it still bothers me.
Gaeta Posted May 10, 2021 Posted May 10, 2021 2 minutes ago, Ging84 said: but I guess just seeing it still bothers me. Then stop looking at it. You are torturning yourself on purpose. What do you hope to accomplish? All this will generate more checking, more stress, more suspicions, you like living like that? Quit this and date him. If one day he wants to be with her you'll cross that bridge when you get there.
Wiseman2 Posted May 10, 2021 Posted May 10, 2021 On 5/4/2021 at 5:02 PM, Ging84 said: Been seeing a guy for a little over a month. he has told me he hasn’t spoken to her since the last breakup which was over a few months ago. It's a red flag to get in the crossfire of anyone's on/off relationship, no matter when they claim they last broke up or spoke. It's a road to headaches and heartaches to be in any sort of triangle. They are still on each others social media so clearly have unfinished business.
sunny-daze Posted May 13, 2021 Posted May 13, 2021 Proceed with caution. I know you haven't been seeing each other long, but it would also bother me if I saw someone I was dating was liking bikini pictures of their ex. It could mean nothing, or it could mean he's still holding on to some feelings for her.
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