sunshine12345 Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 (edited) I met this girl on a dating app 5 months ago and have been seeing her ever since. From the very start of seeing each other, we wanted the same things and it seemed a very good match. She has a past like everyone does, where she was married and had an affair as the marriage was rocky and breaking down. He was severely depressed and ended his life nearly 2 years ago. This has obviously had effected her in some way since. She has dated in between before she met me where they have lasted a few months and then turned out not to been successful. Whilst dating her, she would get calls and texts from a guy she used to date and I never really thought anything more of it. She mentioned him once that they remained friends due to him being there for her when her late husband passed. Until recently, she had became distant from me which was out the blue. I thought we was going and at reasonable pace and never thought there was any concerting issues with us. She now wants to break things off with me, as she says she cannot commit. As you can imagine I’m pretty disheartened of what’s happened but I respected her wishes. Do you think she was ever interested in me or was I just someone there to keep her company? Edited May 4, 2021 by sunshine12345 Needed to amend a paragraph Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 4, 2021 Share Posted May 4, 2021 I think it was a bit of a combo. She liked you well enough & enjoyed spending time with you. If she didn't, she would have been outta there even faster. All you can do is let go Move on. Lick your wounds but move forward. The end of a relationship always sucks but it's really not the end of the world. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBundy1993 Posted May 7, 2021 Share Posted May 7, 2021 Don't mind she sounds like a mess to me. But talking about the tragedy in her life it'd expected. Look she's clear with you and yes it mostly comes out of a sudden for us. But with them it's planned and they checked out long long ago. I think she was with you for some company only as she already had this other guy hovering around. It happens mate. Don't be dishearted with such small rejections. People get rejected after years of commitment and dedication. Be a man and stop thinking about her now. Go find a new date for yourself and don't get attached too soon this time. Take it slow and steady. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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