JanIrace Posted May 3, 2021 Posted May 3, 2021 So I (19) met this girl(18) on tinder on Thursday and we started chatting immediately and exchange Instagrams. From the first evening it's evident we're both fairly interested in each other so after a couple hours of bantering I offered her to go meet her the following weekend (we live about an hour's and a half away from each other) and she said she has to prepare for exams, which I understood as I do too, and left that at that. Following day we keep chatting, in the evening she goes to a house party and gets pretty drunk. On her walk back (about 1 am) she texts me that "I love you" and "you should call me". I gather the the "I love you" is probably just her being drunk so I don't say anything to that but I'm up for a call so I leave her my phone number and we call. The call transforms quickly into a three hour face time and we both fall asleep effectively whilst on each others devices. Next day after were both done with whatever we have to do we start chatting again and the fire is still there, she goes down to the pub with her friends and on her walk back she texts me and we chat a little, I offer to call but she falls asleep immediately upon getting to her friend's house. It is now the day after (Sunday), she wakes and texts me. After a while we're communicating via photographs, and in I've of the photographs she types "I love you" followed by my name. And this photograph is the only one that has her full face. I'm not the type to just give out "I love you"s to anybody so I just comment how its really great to see her face. After that the face is nowhere to be seen again. we chat a little but not much as I'm busy helping my neighbor move houses. After that we exchanged a few messages but after such she just doesn't even open my messages anymore. Now I wouldn't say desperate, but I'm not a traditionally good looking guy and have the social skillset of a mildly stone. She is really nice and I'd like to at least meet her. So I spent the night overthinking things to s*** and back. This morning I sent a good morning text and as usual I got a reply after she finished school. I asked if I could call as I needed to say a few things, she said yes so we called. What went down kinda baffles me... The 5 minute (very me sided conversation) went along the lines of "you saying you lived me really stuck out and stayed in my brain a while I didn't reply equally cos it seems a bit early, that being said I do really like you and would like to get to know you" she cuts me half way and aks to call again later as she needs to think about things, I comply... Later I get a text saying and I quote "hey i just want you to know that i dont think im ready for anything that serious with someone i dont know that well<3 i think ur so lovely and i love getting to know u but i dont want to jump into something so quickly xx" which I understand, jumping into something that quickly ain't something I want either so I effectively say the same thing back but in my words... What I'm gathering here is she said she loved me within two days, but the moment I ask to meet her (after her exams in two weeks time) she says I'm being too quick with things. I am utterly confused. Sorry for the long story, need to get things off my chest Also English isn't my first language, apologies.
Gaeta Posted May 3, 2021 Posted May 3, 2021 Have you ever seen this girl on videochat? I have a strong feeling she was not truthful with who she is.
Author JanIrace Posted May 3, 2021 Author Posted May 3, 2021 8 minutes ago, Gaeta said: Have you ever seen this girl on videochat? I have a strong feeling she was not truthful with who she is. yes, I mentioned we hade a phone call that transformed into a 3 hour video chat and she is infact who she says she is
Maldives Posted May 5, 2021 Posted May 5, 2021 She's one of those people that just flog the word love around by the sounds of it. Her actions don't line up with her words if you get what I mean. It's is confusing but from where I'm at looking in it's not however if it was me in that situation id be confused to. As a rule I always watch there actions not there words. Anyone can say anything 1
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