d0nnivain Posted April 29, 2021 Posted April 29, 2021 13 hours ago, Autumnlove20 said: I know he offered to change it, but I don't feel that he was honest at the start. He said that he limited it to close friends, but really he just made it private. His whole reason for this was so it wouldn't show up in their feeds, which is what he later told me. He felt bad that I was hurt, but only after I had to keep explaining to him why I so upset. This went on for like 20 mins before he finally said he would change it back. I didn't want him to simply because he feels guilty. You are right that I will need to discuss it with it further because right now I'm having a hard time wanting to speak to him. This is where you lost me. He offered to change it back which presumably is what you wanted & asked for Yet now that he offered, you are still annoyed. You are getting what you wanted. The reality is you want him to want it. You can't make that happen. Him offering but you saying no then remaining upset is not fair to him. It's only social media. If he treats you well in the real world who cares what FB says? 1
Uruktopi Posted April 29, 2021 Posted April 29, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: This is where you lost me. He offered to change it back which presumably is what you wanted & asked for Yet now that he offered, you are still annoyed. You are getting what you wanted. The reality is you want him to want it. You can't make that happen. Him offering but you saying no then remaining upset is not fair to him. It's only social media. If he treats you well in the real world who cares what FB says? "The reality is you want him to want it. You can't make that happen." True. And he can´t make to happen that she find it good enough. To expect it would nott be fair to her. Edited April 29, 2021 by Uruktopi
wanderingthoughts11 Posted May 3, 2021 Posted May 3, 2021 why does everything need to be posted online? seems like you are more worried that he maybe doing something else. 1
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