Acacia98 Posted April 27, 2021 Posted April 27, 2021 On 4/25/2021 at 5:14 PM, MrAnon said: Yeah it would seem so... The problem is, and I know its very easy for posters here to say this because they have no feelings, and I agree that many of them have decent points, but for them its so easy to say.. just leave her and let her go out of your life. But if they actually had strong feelings for someone it would not just be so easy, just leave her and thats it lol. They may very well be speaking from personal experience. Some folks have learned from life that there's more to love than being with someone at all costs. Sometimes loving someone means being willing to end your relationship with them so that they can focus on getting better. If she needs help getting information about a mental health professional who can help her and you have access to such information, share it with her. And then let her go.
SaraSays Posted April 27, 2021 Posted April 27, 2021 3 hours ago, MrAnon said: Thats true, alltho the weird part is she refused to be friends and says she can't be friends with me because of her feelings for me that are not on a friend level, just everything about her is weird and confusing and makes little sense to me. A breakup doesn't ever make sense, when it's unilateral, and it can't - she wants to end it, you don't. Best to focus on Springtime, moving your body and exercising your brain with new hobbies (learn to code a basic app, learn a new language, learn to parachute jump, learn acrobatics), and meeting new people through things like volunteering.
Author MrAnon Posted April 28, 2021 Author Posted April 28, 2021 I have not been in contact with her for 3 days and now shes been texting me that she misses me and wants to see me etc..
Wiseman2 Posted April 29, 2021 Posted April 29, 2021 12 hours ago, MrAnon said: I have not been in contact with her for 3 days and now shes been texting me that she misses me and wants to see me etc.. Do you want to see her? Do you want to reconcile? If not it's time to definitively end things and delete her from all your social media and messaging apps. Pity or stringing along aren't a good investment of your time.
Author MrAnon Posted April 29, 2021 Author Posted April 29, 2021 3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Do you want to see her? Do you want to reconcile? If not it's time to definitively end things and delete her from all your social media and messaging apps. Pity or stringing along aren't a good investment of your time. I don't know, I care alot about her, but shes confusing the heck out of me, she has issues lol.
Gaeta Posted April 29, 2021 Posted April 29, 2021 Ask her why she wants to see you, that you are hurting and you're not available to have your feelings played with.
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