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I don't understand him: does he like me or not?


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I understand that each situations differs, but in each of the few relationships I've been in, the man showed obvious signs of interest and there was a gradual progression. I didn't have to follow any rules or give him "space." None of that. That can simply mean that both of us were ready for a relationship at the right time and under the right circumstances. Still, if he seems to be showing you that he's uninterested in about any way possible, I'm inclined to believe him.

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Amanda you do whatever you want to do. Just learn from the experience.

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UPDATE

Sooo I texted him “Ciaoo how’s your week going? :) “ And he replied at 10pm saying “ Ciao :) Just finished work, going on a taxi now. The week was totally full. I even had to go to another city to present the current results of the project. It’s now in a hot phase and everything needs to be done and finished. What about you? How is everything going? Sorry for not writing and texting earlier, my week was and is just full ok work”

my thought is that he is genuinely busy and swamped with work. Dating is not a priority for him.. idk I think eventually i’ll see him again and talk about this. In the meantime I’ll also look around...

 

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10 minutes ago, Amanda141 said:

my thought is that he is genuinely busy and swamped with work. Dating is not a priority for him.. idk I think eventually i’ll see him again and talk about this. In the meantime I’ll also look around...

I would agree with your assessment and I think that is a good plan.

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14 hours ago, Amanda141 said:

my thought is that he is genuinely busy and swamped with work. Dating is not a priority for him.. idk I think eventually i’ll see him again and talk about this. In the meantime I’ll also look around...

Probably quite an accruate assessment, and good idea. 

I wouldn't waste any more time on this guy. His interest level just isn't there. 

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