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Told my partner I didn't want to get married


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7 hours ago, H245 said:

She doesn't want kids and I respected that decision and I was hoping the reverse would be true on my stance about marriage, but it is not and I need to accept that.

I keep hearing she doesn't want kids. What about you?  You said you respected her decision, but are you truly ok with it? Could this be part of why you don't want to marry her? 

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On 4/7/2021 at 9:48 PM, H245 said:

It’s her house. Her name is on everything so I really have no say. 

Excellent. Not anything to sever. No messy coownership.

All you have to do is start looking for a place. 

Basically you're just a tenant pays rent bills etc. So it's as easy as get your stuff packed and move to your new place.

That sets both of you free. She can find whatever she's looking for and you can be yourself rather than coasting along and stringing her along.

Good you brought this to a head so you can move forward.

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