Confused46 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 About 2 months ago, i got out of a 2 and half year relationship. I have been doing fine since because i know it would never have worked out, even thought i still love him and think about him all the time. Yesterday i met a new guy at a friends get-together. He was cute, single, independent, mature. I drove him home and he asked me to come up. I said no at first but he was really pursuasive so i came up. We talked for about an 1 and a half, and then we started kissing. I left after half an hour after and he was still begging me to stay (I know he wanted sex, but i told him no. That is why i left because i knew things were leading to that). When I was leaving i left him my phone number on a piece of paper in the kitchen, and he promised he'd call today. I still havent heard from him. I think i'm overreacting becuase he is the first guy i've actually really liked since i got out of my previous relationship. I really want him to call - i believe we really clicked last night. Is it possible that he is playing the "ill call her in a few days" game? But why would he say he'll call today? Or could he have lost that paper? Maybe we moved too fast last night and he thinks im a slut and not relationship material? i am definitly not - this is the first time in my life i've ever done something like this. Please let me know what you guys think. Any kind of advice is appreciated, but please be honest, dont sugar coat it. Thanks!
Altaira Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 I can't tell if he likes you or not, but I wouldn't like him if I were y ou considering he attempted to get sex so soon instead of getting to know you better. You deserve better treatment. I would not call him.
LN8840K Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 he went after the pootanany .... can ya blame him really ? he will probably call you soon .......... GUY RULE 621 Never get into a relationship with a girl you sleep with on the first night
Altaira Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 L, when you say "sleep with" would this only involve intercourse or does oral sex, etc count too?
LN8840K Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 well to be honest if a girl I met gave me a hummer the first night I met her ....I'm not sure if I could make her anything but a booty call ...... I usually have little respect for " easy " ladies so yes moving into a relationship .... probably not ...... the harder she makes me work the more likely I will respect her ....sorry sad but true and then again its just me , but other fellas probably feel the same
Mary3 Posted November 25, 2005 Posted November 25, 2005 You didnt give him the full booty right ? He is either peeved he didnt get the whole box of apples or he is using the proverbial : I'll call you " speech. In which case , his real intention was to get into your pants and he did not score. I would forget about Mr Sexo and move on...
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