brittanyjean259 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 "My daddy used to tell me that the first time you fall in love, it changes your life forever, and no matter how hard you try, the feelin' never goes away. And no matter what you do, they'll stay with you forever." my dad never told me anything, this was simply read off of something... i couldent bare knowing that the person im in love with i will never get involved with again, and reading this qoute..... can you ever fall in love again? im being naive beleiving everything i read...but i feel like i will never get over my babe.? what do others feel about this qoute?
westernxer Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 If you have a heart, it will break. Then you put it together and start over again. Sometimes it leaks, sometimes it cries, and sometimes it dies. But it will heal, and it will love. As long as you try.
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 ive read so many posts, about people being married...but still being in love with their first love.. will i always be in love with them? i dont want to dwell on this years and years later i know i shouldent base my life on other peoples storys but the way i loved him, how much i adored him...i just couldent picture feeling that way for someone else.. THANK you though
westernxer Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 will i always be in love with them? i dont want to dwell on this years and years later It's up to you.
hooghie Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 I met the guy I'm with now when I was 32. Until him, I was still somewhat infatuated with the first guy I really fell for (age 16). I was devastated when we broke up- it took me a long long time to get over him and my heart alwasy tinckled when I though of him. I never thought I could feel what I felt then again and had accepted it. I dated many men between the age of 16 and 32 and even married one. I was even in love with some of them, but until I met my current bf- I NEVER felt more in love than I did at 16. My point is that yes, it's possible to have something even better than the first time you fall in love.
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 yeah i guess its up to me, i meen i cant make my self fall in love what a long wait eh? haha thank youu
hooghie Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 what a long wait eh? haha :lmao: :lmao: Well- the thing is, like you, I was under this false misconception that I wouldn't have what I had before and to settle for something a little less. Had I been confident that it would feel EVEN BETTER than my first love, I probably would have waited and I probably would have met someone earlier in life
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 i guess since i fell in love, and after 3 years still was( but new the relationship was not healthy and eather was he.. i thought i would still be with this person the rest of my life i was naive by the hole moving on, healing processes but now i know:) thank you
RecordProducer Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 I am in love right now and am very happy. Been in love three times before and I am completely over those 3 guys. It took me between 6 months to a couple years to get over them. The first love is for me just that - a part of the past. A cute one, but nothing more than that. I am 30, btw.
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 Its just really hard to try to picture being in love with someone else, when right now im still in love with an ex.... but it does happen i have had the butterflies for 2 other guys in middle school...i know love is different but i guess their is hope... just knowing that i could love again, is scary lol
westernxer Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 What? You're only a teenager? Don't worry... you've only just begun to live.
Bub24 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Love will come in and out of your life. The way you look at it all is how you're going to deal with it. If you feel like you'll never love that way again then you won't. You have to have hope that you willl love again and love even more than that first time. Love grows and changes. Feelings change like seasons change. Since you are so young, you're going to go through this for a while. But you will find that person for you. You just have to keep loving. Never give up. The right person will come along for you and they will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Treasa Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Oh my God, I can hardly remember my first love's name. Well, no, I can remember his first name. Nick or something. But his last name? Pssshhh... I've had that "Oh my God, I'll never love any other man as much as I love THIS ONE" feeling so many times. At least five or six. I feel that way now. But eventually you get over it. Hopefully I won't have to. We've been together for 17 months now, and I'd like this to be the one I eventually marry/shack up with. We're very happy the way we are, so no sense in pushing anything.
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 17, 2005 Author Posted October 17, 2005 Yep im 17, ive been with him for 3 years.... yeah but i hate having to go through this i wake up from dreams of him and i have the werrrrrrrrridest erriest feeling. but im going to listen to you guys and try to love, just not now
Bub24 Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 That is such a good attitude. And, I know this is soooo cliched but it really is true, if it is meant to be you will be with this guy. I think you are too young to be worried about this one single guy right now. Live your life. Love some more. There are plenty of opportunities to find love. And maybe if you give this guy a while and back off a bit, he will see what he has lost. That is what can be hoped for.
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 18, 2005 Author Posted October 18, 2005 that is what i do hope for, but after i had broke up with him, this new girl moved in right away.... so i except the consequences, but i was still a good gf.. i try to look forward to alot of other things, and yes there could be a chance he might want me back...but i dont think of that...i think of moving on...even though ittttttttttttttt sucks so bad, but i do have my good days thank you so much
downcydeguy Posted October 18, 2005 Posted October 18, 2005 I'd say only 1 out of every 1000 high school relationships last beyond the first year or two AFTER school. You both will go through many changes and the challenge of making it will grow tremendously. I dated a girl from the age of 14 to 21 (I'm 27 now) and naturally thought it would last forever. One day, it was over - just like that. You'll look back at this relationship throughout your entire life. Sometimes you'll sigh and other times you'll grin knowing that it was an important learning experience that everybody needs to have. Good luck and enjoy your youth!
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 18, 2005 Author Posted October 18, 2005 is it true women tend to change more( girls) than guys do?
Author brittanyjean259 Posted October 20, 2005 Author Posted October 20, 2005 you think " whatevers ment to be wil happen"....i do beleive in that bc it makes me feel better... what if we do meet aggain and decide to be in a relationship....but deep down he is a the same... does that meen god ment for me to be with him... when we were fighting on the phone b4 all this happen b4 our break up...thats when i broke up with him... and at nite i prayed to god we wouldent get back together... bc he made me feel so bad....now look...werid huh?
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