ririruri Posted April 2, 2021 Posted April 2, 2021 Hello~ I just recently got into a misunderstanding relationship with my best friend. Lemme tell you how it went: I asked him "what does it mean to like someone" he told "you have fun with them and think about them" and I told "then I think I like you but I don't want to date yet" but I think he missunderstood "date" to having food outside together and going "out" together as a couple and not "being in a relationship" and told "nah that's not until 18, we can hang out instead" and so I was like umm okkay- and he misunderstood that I accepted. After that nothing really happened so I thought things went my way BUT nah nah he started telling "ilys" and I was like "what are we" and he was like "boyfriend/girlfriend" Im like no way shi- I went with it cause I thought I might start liking him and he was a really good person so. Recently, I got confessed to by my phillipines friend and I don't how to reject him. I somewhere don't want to. My boyfriend (the misunderstanding guy) pranked me a very insensitive joke and from then I had been mentally unstable and I had to go to the doctor's (psychiatrist) because of it T-T my mental health has been really bad cause of him and I don't like it. Slowly I've started to not like him. He's a good guy but the prank was- ugh- (it was that he's gonna pass away in 3-4 months, and he was my best best friend so I broke down and from then I started to overthink A LOT. now I really want to give an answer to the person who confessed to me and wanna break things with my boyfriend but it's SOOOOOOOOO hard T-T idk what to do.
spiderowl Posted April 7, 2021 Posted April 7, 2021 It doesn't sound like your boyfriend is good for you. Pranking you that he has not long to live is very cruel and not funny. I am glad you are getting help for your mental health because that is important for you at the moment. It's best to be straight with the other guy and say honestly what you mean. You don't have to get involved in anything you don't want to. If you want to keep it as a friendship, then tell him. Is there anyone else you can talk to about these matters? Sometimes it helps to get the perspective of someone who knows you.
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