sushiara Posted March 29, 2021 Posted March 29, 2021 my boyfriend wanted my attention 24/7 but sometimes i just wanna do my own stuffs like a me-time but I don't know how to tell him that I need some time for myself. I don't wanna hurt him cuz he's so fragile
d0nnivain Posted March 29, 2021 Posted March 29, 2021 Have a soft talk with him about trust & space. Explain that he will be more interesting to you if he takes some time to pursue independent activities as you will be doing. Make it clear that you just want some time to do your life. Be gentle with him if he's fragile but make it clear that he needs to become more independent
Keridan Posted March 29, 2021 Posted March 29, 2021 Unhealthy. Sorry. If he's that needy, he's most likely insecure. If you don't want that kind of attention, he will go nuts. Need more information here. How long have you been together? How serious? Is it worth trying to fix? I get that you care aabout him, but sometimes the best thing to do is stand firm and hurt his feelings so that he can adapt to what makes you happy.
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