how to get back my male friend

[carefree]

so my friend's husband and i hit it off and became friends. i know my friend was uncomfortable with it, but he was my friend now and i didn't care.

he and i texted each other during the work day, we called each other here and there for favors, It was fun. I really liked him! as a friend.

she had access to his phone and she didn't like what she was reading (our texts) and she asked he and i to stop texting and to curb the friendship as it made her uncomfortable. She felt it was crossing a line. I didn't care because it wasn't crossing a line to me and I actually enjoyed him now more than her.

 she then confided in me that he had a texting affair before so she didn't actually trust him so  i told her we'd stop texting, but we didn't. lol  I figured as long as he was willing to answer me then that's on him. He kept his phone locked now so she wouldn't know. He's the one married to her, not me. plus, we were just friends.

She found out we kept texting and contacting each other during the work day and she freaked on us. lol he told me it was best for his marriage to end the friendship with me which is total crap.

I saw her at the market and she was crying and asked what was going on between me and her husband, lol I refused to answer her because if she was ANY kind of friend, she'd know I wouldn't cheat on MY  husband. I ignored her and called security to escort her out of the market because i'm not putting up with her foolishness.

She didn't trust us and that's bs.

How can i rekindle the friendship with him because that's all it was was a friendship.

 

 

 

[Wiseman2]

6 minutes ago, carefree said:

she'd know I wouldn't cheat on MY  husband. I ignored her and called security to escort her out of the market because i'm not putting up with her foolishness.

Not sure why he would want you as a friend?

[carefree]

21 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Not sure why he would want you as a friend?

I don't want HER as a friend. I want him as a friend. shes possessive and insecure. i had her escorted out cuz i dont owe her ANY explanation or justification for her husband's friendship with me. if she thinks its more than a friendship thats on her. she begged for answers and i wouldnt sink to her level 

[Sun Seeker]

You sound like a terrible friend, where are your morals?

Why would he even want to be your friend? I certainly would not.

He has no reason to be your friend. His wife is completely right to tell him to end your friendship with him.

Maybe focus on your husband more instead of other women's husband's.

[carefree]

34 minutes ago, Punterxx said:

You sound like a terrible friend, where are your morals?

Why would he even want to be your friend? I certainly would not.

He has no reason to be your friend. His wife is completely right to tell him to end your friendship with him.

Maybe focus on your husband more instead of other women's husband's.

My husband and I are fine. he's not insecure because we have TRUST in our marriage, unlike hers.

i repeat ~ my friend's husband was a FRIEND to me. it's not my fault he cheated on her before so she was insecure with him befriending females. 

she and i were friends for years and she was so WRONG to assume i would have an affair on MY husband. I am so hurt by her.

she begged me for reassurance that we weren't involved and i called security to make a fool of her at the market. i am DONE with her. I'm so offended she had the NERVE to think i would betray my husband. HER actions and questions can DESTROY a marraige. She's a jerk. I want my friend (him) back, thou.

Edited March 28, 2021 by carefree

[hippychick3]

Wow. You’re a horrible person. His relationship with his wife should be way more important than his “friendship” with you. I hope he cuts off contact with you. I cannot believe anyone would want to be your friend.