From past experience, can yall give me example of what happened during the date and after the date when it went well?

[Trail Blazer]

On 3/27/2021 at 11:19 PM, Eternal Sunshine said:

If the date has gone well, I would receive a text within an hour after the date. Occasionally, a guy would contact me the next day instead. If no contact within 24 hours, it's unlikely to go anywhere. When they contact you, they should be suggesting the next date. Beware of people that text you all the time but seem elusive when trying to make plans.

And if both parties adopt your attitude, nobody contacts anyone.  What happens if you had an awesome date and he doesn’t contact you?  Do you just let him go?

[Wiseman2]

what happened during the date and after the date when it went well.

Wild sex, then she blocks you. 

[mortensorchid]

I've been on more OLDs than I can count at this point in life.  What I can tell you is that there is no standard formula to what will/will not indicate what does / doesn't go well.  I can have had a few horrific ones which are beyond words (the guy who showed up an hour late high and nodded off at the table, these a*****s who don't even bother to order a drink or food and just expect me to take the lead, the one who literally circled around for over an HOUR around the meeting place who also had no phone / GPS in 2007 and kept calling me from pay phones to say he'll be there in 5 minutes, etc.)  But those aside ...

The very end - When you are about to part ways, you walk outside of the meeting place and one asks the other where they are parked.  If he just walks away from me (no that really happened a few times), or if he just offers his hand to shake and doesn't walk me to the car, or says something like "good luck", then that's that.  He is not interested and I will never hear a word from him again, it was just an encounter.

48 hours - If I have not heard from him within 48 hours after the first get together (text or phone call just to say thank you), or if I send him a text afterward saying thank you and he doesn't respond, then I will never hear from him again.  He might call or text a few days later, I might have a second get together with him, but he doesn't really care if I say yes or no to it.  

I've also been on plenty of OLDs where we have a good or a decent time together, but I never hear from him again after that.  Why?  Because he won't make the effort with me or other women, but he will make the effort with other things in life.  Facts.  

[Miss Peach]

On 3/27/2021 at 5:49 AM, Eternal Sunshine said:

If the date has gone well, I would receive a text within an hour after the date. Occasionally, a guy would contact me the next day instead. If no contact within 24 hours, it's unlikely to go anywhere. When they contact you, they should be suggesting the next date. Beware of people that text you all the time but seem elusive when trying to make plans.

I would agree with this. I also recommend making plans when you contact her afterwards. I've had some guys who text after the date to keep me in motion but don't offer a date. When I don't get the contact AND the date I assume I'm on the back burning or a lower option.