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I feel like i'm losing feelings for the girl i'm talking to, but i don't want to lose feelings if that makes sense. I hate the thought of her with someone else if i leave her... am i really losing feelings? what do i do? 

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What do you mean by talking? Is this online?

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Probably. Don’t think there’s anything you can do

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2 hours ago, yeahhhhh said:

I feel like i'm losing feelings for the girl i'm talking to, but i don't want to lose feelings if that makes sense. I hate the thought of her with someone else if i leave her... am i really losing feelings? what do i do? 

Scarcity mindset.  You don't want to keep her, you just don't want to lose her. 

Don't be a blocker.  If you don't like her go let her find someone that does, and find someone that you like.

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Have you met in person yet?  maybe that will jump start your feelings. 

If you meet & that doesn't fix things, just let this go.  If you are not all in, let her go fidn somebody who is.   Letting go of her will also free you up to meet somebody who is  a better match for you. 

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if this is just over chat, you need to be physically in contact if you want feelings to flourish.

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