Candacesims Posted March 24, 2021 Posted March 24, 2021 (edited) I always did have trust issues with more women than I do men. I think it's because I must have had girls that I tried to be friendly with - or tried to become friends with - just come close to my ex-boyfriend while I was in a relationship. This is what always scares me about getting into a new relationship with a new guy, who could be loyal, and knew I get a bit jealous of other women. Yep, the guys that I did have a relationship for a while in did cheat. I went to learning disabilities in college and girls and guys did have a learning disability in there. I think maybe because it just seemed weird if girls said 'I love you' in a friend way. It still seems weird to me if I start talking to a new guy on Facebook and he just has weird female friends. Edited March 24, 2021 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Edited for Clarity/Ease of Reading
smackie9 Posted March 24, 2021 Posted March 24, 2021 don't talk to guys that have a bunch of female friends.
Author Candacesims Posted March 24, 2021 Author Posted March 24, 2021 this not what mean . mods kept changing and I mean just friends that are overly friendyly that are girls . so
BaileyB Posted March 24, 2021 Posted March 24, 2021 3 minutes ago, Candacesims said: mods kept changing That’s because your first post was basically illegible. I’m still not sure what exactly you are saying or asking.
Author Candacesims Posted March 24, 2021 Author Posted March 24, 2021 4 minutes ago, BaileyB said: That’s because your first post was basically illegible. I’m still not sure what exactly you are saying or asking. I was trying to say that some girls with learning are more overly friendly while I did have a boyfriend in college and always did start drama and some overly friendly girls with learning tried to get them to cheat . now there ex boyfriend since they did cheat . I am still single and this what I had dealt no matter what is . 1
chillii Posted March 25, 2021 Posted March 25, 2021 l think it's pretty clear what your saying myself and your right women can be overly friendly it even embarrasses me sometimes if l'm with my woman. l don't know what the answer is from your point of view women have a language all their own in this sort of thing. Hopefully your new bf won't know many women , that'd be a good start.
Wiseman2 Posted March 25, 2021 Posted March 25, 2021 On 3/24/2021 at 6:25 AM, Candacesims said: It still seems weird to me if I start talking to a new guy on Facebook and he just has weird female friends. Don't be in the fan club of guys who collect too many female friends on social media.
Author Candacesims Posted March 25, 2021 Author Posted March 25, 2021 1 hour ago, chillii said: l think it's pretty clear what your saying myself and your right women can be overly friendly it even embarrasses me sometimes if l'm with my woman. l don't know what the answer is from your point of view women have a language all their own in this sort of thing. Hopefully your new bf won't know many women , that'd be a good start. all the learning disabities has been cause drama while I was in college when I was in a relationship and they tried to get the guys that I did have a relationship to cheat on me . some girls just become friends with me just get close to guys that I did have a relationship . yes or no . I still confused about . all these girls did have a learning disabilities .
Author Candacesims Posted March 27, 2021 Author Posted March 27, 2021 I know that I trust issue with women more . when I was in college and while I was in a relationship at the time . the girls always seem to pick on the guy that I did have a relationship with in college and some of the girls just become friends with me just test to guys that to see if they did cheat on me but they did cheat on me . I had relationship one at the time . I did break up with cheater . I still remember one of girl got me into argue about one of my last boyfriend and the girl kept asking are still in a relationship with this guy and I said yes . the guy ask to have more than one girlfriend to me and I said No and he also cheated on . MY first ex boyfriend ask me out and I did reject since he also cheater . college area . I got into a new relationship but lasted about year then he started complaining about his ex girlfriends every single time we when out together and then he starts to blame my trust issue each time we did argue but he was the one that start the whole thing in the first . I did break up with me and he didn't want and threat to I will call the police if you do not break up with m and this what did work . I am now working on a new guy that I am texting through Facebook . BTW I had( ex boyfriends)
spiderowl Posted March 29, 2021 Posted March 29, 2021 You did well to break up with the guy who cheated on you. Any guy that cheats on you, if you have both agreed you are in an exclusive relationship, is not worth keeping. I think it is not wise to blame the girls, even though you don't trust women much. The guys can say no and if they don't, then they are not worth keeping. Instead of focusing on the women and how you see them as a threat, it is best to find a guy who would not consider cheating with anyone while with you, a guy with integrity.
MsJayne Posted March 29, 2021 Posted March 29, 2021 People only flirt with people who are responsive to it. We're no different to other animals in that we put out messages without saying a word, and if other girls are coming on to your partner, look to your partner for the reason why. A guy who's happy with his GF isn't putting out the "I'm available" vibe. and the only people who flirt with someone who's not interested are people who can't read social cues. So, if it was just one girl once in a while, she's just socially inept, but if it's different girls and is a regular occurrence, your choice of men is the problem.
Author Candacesims Posted March 29, 2021 Author Posted March 29, 2021 11 hours ago, spiderowl said: You did well to break up with the guy who cheated on you. Any guy that cheats on you, if you have both agreed you are in an exclusive relationship, is not worth keeping. I think it is not wise to blame the girls, even though you don't trust women much. The guys can say no and if they don't, then they are not worth keeping. Instead of focusing on the women and how you see them as a threat, it is best to find a guy who would not consider cheating with anyone while with you, a guy with integrity. btw my college was a learning disability special college and lot girls that learning disabilities . only seem to find guys that I did have a relationship but when I broke up with guys . the girls stop chasing him . this happens lot time and knew one of girls liked him more than just friends . I have also been in a toxic relationship as well . when I tried to be nice to some girls they just start getting rude to me and blame on my fault hat I am in way of her finding a decent man . other girls said I hate that girl so much . I always had trouble with trying to be single . that I am don't like being single .
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