winegirl869 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 if a girl tells you first that they love you and in love with you after 2-3 months of dating and you(guy) respond back i'm glad and happy that you told me that you loved me -would you be happy that they did love you ? even though you love them but hasn't said it yet would that mean that you had the same feelings for them ??
westernxer Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 It really depends on the guy... How does he treat you?
SuperMonk Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 OMG....he is just using you girl! Believe me. 3 months of dating and he hasn't said it? I bet he's cheating on you I feel so bad that's horrible winegirl869. You need to go up to him right away and ask him he loves you. It's the ONLY way it'll work. Don't let yourself be played....what if he IS cheatinG?! Uh, this advice is very poorly sighted and is biased. Some guys are not into saying "iloveyou" and some guys are. It's been my experience that guys shouldn't be the ones to say it.
cj_gal Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 the reason the guy wants you to say it ..in my opinion...is so they can walk out on you..easier..and they have no hurt feelings...dated a guy for a long time..told him i loved him..everything was great..came over a week later and said "How can i love you..when i don't love myself"...good question..then he walked.. Today..the guy i have been seeing were having an in depth discussion on where our relationship was going..always hinting at things..and he said i never said anything and i don't love him..I told him i feel alot ,but don't say I love you because i am scared of getting hurt...him walking away..so I told him today..i do love him...and he says.."I don't want that kind of relationship at this time..i just want to have fun,..his ex is pregnant..what more does he want.."I am still trying to figure YOU guys out..any clues..please let me know..maybe some kind of hand gesture that will give us a sign..
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