lifestyle1 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 My BF dumped me Fri after 5 years we live together with my 3 kids. i felt the argment didnt warrant his anger ( I asked for the rent money) and was suspicious there was something else. so i looked at his cell phone bill. sure enough i called a number and a woman answered. she revealed that she had gone out with him 3 times, is divorcing her H but still lives together, was introduced by a friend ( i think his necice) shes 27 hes 45. said they had not slept together but they have been talking to each other daily from 8 in the morning sometime s he would call her 5 times a day and she called him 10 to 20 times. as far as i can tell it has been since august. he denied the number, the girl and a relationship, even with the proof. so i called her and revealed all the ugly facts about him i am sure he wouldnt reveal to a woman he is romancing. this got his attention and he called me with "what are you doing?" I feel like hell, because 5 yrs ago i left my H and he left his w FOR ME. when you begin a relationship from an affair there is already a trust issue because you both are liars. So i prevailed to make this work. we had our share of problems, and i suspected he had ulteriro motives. he never finalized his divorce after 5 yrs. his parents live on the propeety, his w in the house, and he with me around the corner. the family accepted me and my kids. I am devastated. I feel like pay back is a motherf#$@ for doing it to wife #1 i STILL LOVE HIM AND WONDER WHY AM I SO FUC#@ UP to want this. im angry and hurt as he is verbally abusive and called me every name. he has also been a provider and support to me and my kids, helped me launch my business, and been a firend in need. i'm so hurting. feeling something was up but unable to pin point it, i too began looking on the computer at dating sites to see what was out there in my age group. i never pursued anything. but he did find out, and said how is what he did any different than me? well i didnt pursue anything help
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