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Is it the Slow Fade?


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I am really sorry you've been through this. It sucks. 

Somebody pointed out the "schizophrenia thread", it was started by me after I recalled my "memoir" of the bloke who escaped through a window in a restaurant's bathroom to get away from me :').

You dodged a bullet. In my case, the guy was also constantly love-bombing me, he sent me flowers, donuts (they were delicious so I won't complain about that), was constantly complimenting me and so on. When he actually got to know the real me, he looked terrified and booked it. It's not really about whether they reject you or not, people know what they can and can't deal with. I think it's more about how they do it. It's hard to comment on your case because we don't know about your "condition", but this guy didn't even have the guts to be open about his feelings, and just faded out like a coward. He didn't respect you enough to be open with you and let you go. It was all some kind of a cheesy fantasy for him. It was all for HIM. 

You're now free to find a proper man. 

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