Disgruntled Heart Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 how to deal with your bf whose always accusing you and believes a person u had a game relationship with "Imvu" you are with in real .. and now he is cheating on me ? wouldnt he blame me n say he now started to when i confront him ? should i confront him ?
d0nnivain Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 (edited) Your BF doesn't trust you. I don't know whether you gave him reason to distrust you or if he's just paranoid & untrusting. Either way without trust you don't have a relationship. I'd get a new BF. There is no sense confronting him. He's not going to change. I had a BF like yours. Eventually I dumped him because I couldn't live like that. A few months later he actually said to me he was shocked that I didn't immediately start dating this other guy who he always accused me of cheating on him with. I reiterated that me & the other guy were never more than friendly work colleagues. The guy I dumped apologized & begged me to take him back but since I already knew what a paranoid controlling p.i.t.a. he was I declined. Edited March 13, 2021 by d0nnivain 1
ShyViolet Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 If he's cheating on you, why are you even still with him? 1
BaileyB Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 (edited) 4 hours ago, Disgruntled Heart said: should i confront him ? I wouldn’t bother. I would just leave. I have no interest dating a man who cheats on me... even less, a man who passes the blame to me. Honestly, I would rather be single. Any day of the week... Edited March 13, 2021 by BaileyB 1
Wiseman2 Posted March 13, 2021 Posted March 13, 2021 7 hours ago, Disgruntled Heart said: a game relationship with "Imvu" you are with in real .. and now he is cheating on me ? What is "Imvu"? If he's possessive jealous cheating etc. clearly its time to end it.
ExpatInItaly Posted March 14, 2021 Posted March 14, 2021 14 hours ago, Disgruntled Heart said: how to deal with your bf whose always accusing you and believes a person u had a game relationship with "Imvu" you are with in real .. and now he is cheating on me ? wouldnt he blame me n say he now started to when i confront him ? should i confront him ? You don't. You dump him.
Gaeta Posted March 14, 2021 Posted March 14, 2021 (edited) Imvu is a type of online life where you create an avatar and you live in there like it's real life, you find other people on there and have virtual sex together with your avatar. I have a ex friend who was addicted to it. People end up flying across the world to meet their virtual bf/gf. You have no business being on those kind of app when you're in a relationship. If you were there it means your relationship was probably doing bad enough that you took refuge in a virtual life. Time to break up. You and him can't come back from all that cheating. Edited March 14, 2021 by Gaeta 1
elaine567 Posted March 14, 2021 Posted March 14, 2021 22 hours ago, Disgruntled Heart said: how to deal with your bf whose always accusing you My guess he has been cheating on you for a while hence the constant accusations. People who are cheating often accuse the other of cheating, it is a well known occurrence. As you were both cheating albeit in different ways, then time to call it a day on this relationship. 1
Miss Spider Posted March 14, 2021 Posted March 14, 2021 I think he is it using it as an excuse. Cheaters like to do that a lot. People who cheat suspect you’re cheating too because if they were you they’d cheat on them.
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