Should I contact him one last time?

[Versacehottie]

Hmmm, well I think the others have already given you good advice for the specifics about this guy. And I agree don't get in touch with him.  Lazy & playing on your openness IMO.

Here's what I would say about moving forward with new guys.  People have so many layers to them.  But that doesn't mean before a first date or in the first handful of dates you have to let new guys in on everything going on with you/deeper thoughts/ability to pick up on vibes.  Depending on the guy that you relate this information to, you can be greatly mislead by their intentions.  Here's the good thing: if you can "read" a person from a distance, you can see if he's the type that can send you vibes without really telling him about your ability, see?  My advice is to be more private about this ability until you know each other better and the guy has proven he's worth telling that too.  If he's some con'artist, player, he's going to play along like he is able to do it is as well or send vibes.  

Not to totally discount what you are capable of, but perhaps some of what you are feeling is the limerence and excitement about a new guy as well as your ability--which really leaves you vulnerable to getting played.  So I think you should keep it to yourself for a while so it doesn't play into the beginning stages for the guy.  Lol, if he's emitting good vibes your way, you will still be able to pick up on them--without discussing that with him.  That should make your interactions with each other more pure.   

In a way, probably each of us has some great information that makes us vulnerable to being used/taken advantage of.  Perhaps a guy hides that he is really rich, someone hides that they have a beach house when they meet a new guy the week before 4th of July; you might have to hold back on this info so unscrupulous guys don't prey on it and you can test whether they are real about you, about their actual abilities themselves.  That's how I would play it. Good luck

ps. I think once you start talking sex stuff with a guy you've never met, it definitely will be the rabbit hole you are stuck focusing on.

Edited March 11, 2021 by Versacehottie

[Filler]

33 minutes ago, Versacehottie said:

Hmmm, well I think the others have already given you good advice for the specifics about this guy. And I agree don't get in touch with him.  Lazy & playing on your openness IMO.

Here's what I would say about moving forward with new guys.  People have so many layers to them.  But that doesn't mean before a first date or in the first handful of dates you have to let new guys in on everything going on with you/deeper thoughts/ability to pick up on vibes.  Depending on the guy that you relate this information to, you can be greatly mislead by their intentions.  Here's the good thing: if you can "read" a person from a distance, you can see if he's the type that can send you vibes without really telling him about your ability, see?  My advice is to be more private about this ability until you know each other better and the guy has proven he's worth telling that too.  If he's some con'artist, player, he's going to play along like he is able to do it is as well or send vibes.  

Not to totally discount what you are capable of, but perhaps some of what you are feeling is the limerence and excitement about a new guy as well as your ability--which really leaves you vulnerable to getting played.  So I think you should keep it to yourself for a while so it doesn't play into the beginning stages for the guy.  Lol, if he's emitting good vibes your way, you will still be able to pick up on them--without discussing that with him.  That should make your interactions with each other more pure.   

In a way, probably each of us has some great information that makes us vulnerable to being used/taken advantage of.  Perhaps a guy hides that he is really rich, someone hides that they have a beach house when they meet a new guy the week before 4th of July; you might have to hold back on this info so unscrupulous guys don't prey on it and you can test whether they are real about you, about their actual abilities themselves.  That's how I would play it. Good luck

ps. I think once you start talking sex stuff with a guy you've never met, it definitely will be the rabbit hole you are stuck focusing on.

Thank you I will do that in the future. 

[Filler]

1 hour ago, poppyfields said:

The bolded, that's pretty amazing Filler, a sign of a true empath.

However, and jmo from being somewhat of an empath myself, what I think you're sensing (in him/from him) is his energy dropping because he realizes getting you into bed isn't as easy as he initially thought it would be.  Versus consciously sending you telepathic sexual vibes and then consciously stopping.

His vibe changes because again, he had an agenda -- you go to him and have sex with him - and since that's not happening he's disappointed, his energy drops, and that's what you're sensing, again it's not something he is consciously aware of. Again, jmo.

This is said not knowing exactly how empathic you are.  If you can actually feel the feelings of others, and are able to know his feelings, what he's experiencing (i.e. that he's extremely horny and telepathically sending you intense sexual vibes when he is) then that is something entirely different.

In any event, whatever you're searching for, I hope you find it.  Good luck.

 

I can feel if a person is upset, or happy or if they are interested in me sexually. Sometimes I see more info in my dreams I agree with you saying that when he is disappointed his energy stops. That happened a lot in the beggining based on my replies it would increase sometimes or just drop if he didn't like what I texted. Later after he found out about it though it felt like he was controlling his thoughts because it stopped comepletely after I told him about that. He said it would have been better if he knew about this right from the start. It felt like he didn't like being an open book to me. There were times when I haven't told the guys I'm talking to about this but they kept saying that they feel a wierd energy and it has never happened to them before. So I'm guessing that even if he didn't verbalize it he also felt a feedback of some sort but of course I can't be 100% sure.

[Filler]

5 hours ago, Shortskirtslonglashes said:

This is me.., how do you keep the butterflies? I’ve dated all kinds of guys and this always happens after the relationships been serious for awhile . I start wanting to date new people. Ugh sorry I guess that’s another thread 

 

But hey, yeah, OP. This guy is super lazy and not about what you’re about at all. The fact that he kind of blew you off when he “overslept” and then had no idea what was even going on would have been enough for me to lose interest.But I guess you’re attracted enough to give it keep trying with this person. 

I was immidiately turned off of course but he reached out. Again if it wasn't for the vibe that is super powerful I wouldn't have even thought twice before crossing him out. As of today I sense zero vibe so I already feel unattached. The spell is wearing off. It takes couple of days for it to completely go away.