Kennythekola Posted March 9, 2021 Posted March 9, 2021 (edited) I have been talking to this girl since May 2020, and we have gotten somewhat close over time. I ended up spending my summer travelling around the globe without her, when I came back we arranged a “date” but it was she cancelled because someone in her fam had “corona”. Me being a fool ended up texting her a week later asking to reschedule and when she said she was busy i asked again the following week but she didn’t seem to be distant about it. So I told her to get in contact with me once she was free but she didn’t..... a few months later she has a death in the family, I messaged her and she didn’t reply so I thought she must be grieving. And as time went on I didn’t message or call her because I thought she would message me when she’s feeling herself. No she won’t even talk to me. What do I do? Should I give up? And why do I still keep thinking about her? I can’t get her out of my head... Edited March 9, 2021 by Kennythekola
mark clemson Posted March 9, 2021 Posted March 9, 2021 Yes, this is hopeless. A woman who is interested in you will respond back. Take "the hint" and stop wasting your time and emotional energy. It's been time to move on from this for a while, actually... 2
Fletch Lives Posted March 9, 2021 Posted March 9, 2021 You ask a woman out once. If she can't make it, she's either not interested or has problems, and neither are what you want. No problem, just move on to the next woman. 2
Wiseman2 Posted March 9, 2021 Posted March 9, 2021 8 hours ago, Kennythekola said: I ended up spending my summer travelling around the globe . she cancelled because someone in her fam had “corona”. How were you able to travel around the globe during the pandemic? Unfortunately it seems like she's not that interested. Just start talking to other women. 1
d0nnivain Posted March 9, 2021 Posted March 9, 2021 Yes you should give up. You started talking to her in May 2020 but to date it doesn't seem like you met in person yet. Stop wasting your time.
smackie9 Posted March 10, 2021 Posted March 10, 2021 May of 2020..covid in full swing, people in lock down, depressed, lonely bored. Everyone turns to the internet for some relief, socialization. She didn't tell you to forget about it/leave her alone because she knew she was only using you to fill in her time. So instead she gave you excuse after excuse to "HINT" that she had no intention of meeting you. The writing is on the wall...she is not interested, and yes you need to give up. Best of luck meeting someone locally.
dramafreezone Posted March 11, 2021 Posted March 11, 2021 (edited) You've given her more than enough opportunities to reach back out to you. She's not interested, just move on. Doesn't have anything to do with her grieving the death of a loved one or any of that. That was a great move by telling her to get back to you when she has time. Remember that in the future, but don't go and text her again after that. You've put the ball in her court after taking the lead, it's up to her to hit the ball over the net eventually. Edited March 11, 2021 by dramafreezone
Trail Blazer Posted March 11, 2021 Posted March 11, 2021 On 3/9/2021 at 8:52 PM, Wiseman2 said: How were you able to travel around the globe during the pandemic? Unfortunately it seems like she's not that interested. Just start talking to other women. I know, right! Half the world weren't even allowed out their front door...
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