Gaeta Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 16 hours ago, Gina2203 said: It is a possibility, but I highly doubt it. It’s tax season he’s been extremely busy and he even paused his hinge account. Actually we both decided to pause our account. If he works in Finance or accounting you'll see him again after April 30th (deadline for Canada). I have family & friends in the field and it's impossible to get them with us in that period, they work late each day, work weekends, some will work the entire Easter weekend. I work in that field too but I don't touch income taxes. 1
Author Gina2203 Posted March 7, 2021 Author Posted March 7, 2021 2 hours ago, Gaeta said: If he works in Finance or accounting you'll see him again after April 30th (deadline for Canada). I have family & friends in the field and it's impossible to get them with us in that period, they work late each day, work weekends, some will work the entire Easter weekend. I work in that field too but I don't touch income taxes. Thank you so much
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 8 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: That work thing he gave you is just pure BS he's not feeling it like you that excuse he gave you is all you need for proof I have to agree. If he works in this field and knows it's a busy period, he knew when he had their date that he wouldn't have time for dating thereafter. I don't buy that he suddenly realized he wasn't going to have time to pursue this. He would've known what to expect at this time of year, and would've known he doesn't have time for dating. It's a convenient excuse. 1
Miss Spider Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 16 hours ago, cleverusername said: Curious, how much does astrology influence your relationships? For example, if astrology says its a difficult match, will you try it anyway or do you just walk away? I’m guessing they’ll try anyway because Aries and Scorpio are supposedly not compatible signs I met the perfect guy five years ago but unfortunately he was a Capricorn .
Gaeta Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 @Gina2203: You said it's income taxe for HIS company or A company? That makes a huge difference than being employed by a big Accounting/Finance Firm. If this man is working on income tax for 1 company then all this are excuses. He may work later during weekdays but he's definitely NOT working his Saturday nights.
Miss Spider Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 (edited) Just to be clear I was kidding about the Capricorn thing. I don’t really care about that. I would,however, reject a guy if he didn’t use a direct address comma. Can and have, my friends. Oh well if my punctuation sucks so it’s hypocritical. It can make sentences too hard to comprehend. Edited March 7, 2021 by Shortskirtslonglashes
Author Gina2203 Posted March 7, 2021 Author Posted March 7, 2021 2 hours ago, Gaeta said: @Gina2203: You said it's income taxe for HIS company or A company? That makes a huge difference than being employed by a big Accounting/Finance Firm. If this man is working on income tax for 1 company then all this are excuses. He may work later during weekdays but he's definitely NOT working his Saturday nights. He has his own accounting firm and he looks after 5 people.
Gaeta Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Gina2203 said: He has his own accounting firm and he looks after 5 people. Ok so him being extremely busy is justified. It's still possible to spend time together. Nothing keeps him from grabbing lunch with you somewhere near his office. If he's genuinely interested he will figure it out. Do not figure it out for him. It's his own company, no one supervises him. He can up and leave the office as he wishes. Edited March 7, 2021 by Gaeta 1
Author Gina2203 Posted March 7, 2021 Author Posted March 7, 2021 2 minutes ago, Gaeta said: Ok so him being extremely busy is justified. It's still possible to spend time together. Nothing keeps him from grabbing lunch with you somewhere near his office. If he's genuinely interested he will figure it out. Do not figure it out for him. It's his own company, no one supervise him. Our schedule doesn’t match . But you’re right, if he wants to make plans he can. I’ll just wait focus on myself and message him end of April. They said that sometimes Scorpio get distant and pull away when they like someone. Let’s see... I’ll give it a last try in April. Thank you for your input
Gaeta Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 3 minutes ago, Gina2203 said: They said that sometimes Scorpio get distant and pull away when they like someone. Him being a man rules him more than being a scorpio. When men want something they go after it. It's instinctual, they're wired this way no matter their zodiac. Do not act needy, it's unattractive to men. Go on with your life and keep on searching for the right man. You've had 1 date with this guy you are not in a relationship. 3 1
basil67 Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Gina2203 said: They said that sometimes Scorpio get distant and pull away when they like someone. Let’s see... I’ll give it a last try in April. Thank you for your input Is a man getting distant and pulling away a trait you find endearing? And what evidence do you have that he's doing this because he likes you? Logic says that he's pulled away because he's not sufficiently interested. Edited March 7, 2021 by basil67 3
hajk Posted March 7, 2021 Posted March 7, 2021 (edited) 14 minutes ago, Gina2203 said: Our schedule doesn’t match . But you’re right, if he wants to make plans he can. I’ll just wait focus on myself and message him end of April. @Gina2203 I agree, just focus on yourself and living your life. He would reach out if he's still interested. Edited March 7, 2021 by hajk 2
Maldives Posted March 8, 2021 Posted March 8, 2021 7 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: I have to agree. If he works in this field and knows it's a busy period, he knew when he had their date that he wouldn't have time for dating thereafter. I don't buy that he suddenly realized he wasn't going to have time to pursue this. He would've known what to expect at this time of year, and would've known he doesn't have time for dating. It's a convenient excuse. No such thing as no time either lol if people like you they will find the time 3
Trail Blazer Posted March 10, 2021 Posted March 10, 2021 On 3/8/2021 at 8:50 AM, Gina2203 said: Our schedule doesn’t match . But you’re right, if he wants to make plans he can. I’ll just wait focus on myself and message him end of April. They said that sometimes Scorpio get distant and pull away when they like someone. Let’s see... I’ll give it a last try in April. Thank you for your input They also say that Santa Clause knows if children have been naughty or nice. However, logic would suggest that the presents children receive at Christmas is entirely dependent on their family and not a old man with a big white beard from the North Pole. 1
smackie9 Posted March 12, 2021 Posted March 12, 2021 On 3/7/2021 at 11:00 AM, Shortskirtslonglashes said: I’m guessing they’ll try anyway because Aries and Scorpio are supposedly not compatible signs I met the perfect guy five years ago but unfortunately he was a Capricorn . I dated several Capricorns and ended up married to one lol. I don't think it's unfortunate. They are Loyal, and being non risk takers, keeps me grounded and out of trouble most of the time
Miss Spider Posted March 12, 2021 Posted March 12, 2021 18 minutes ago, smackie9 said: I dated several Capricorns and ended up married to one lol. I don't think it's unfortunate. They are Loyal, and being non risk takers, keeps me grounded and out of trouble most of the time That describes my dad and he’s a Capricorn
Trail Blazer Posted March 14, 2021 Posted March 14, 2021 On 3/13/2021 at 9:54 AM, smackie9 said: I dated several Capricorns and ended up married to one lol. I don't think it's unfortunate. They are Loyal, and being non risk takers, keeps me grounded and out of trouble most of the time It's disturbing that whilst I don't believe I'm risk averse per se, I've been described before as being both loyal and, owing to my measured approach to risk taking, someone who "doesn't take risks." Nope, sorry, I can't do it! Stop it! I'm too logical to believe this nonsense! See, that logic must make me a Scorpio! Yes, I knew it! I found a way to unconvince myself that perhaps I was wrong about the merits of astrology. Save me, Jebus! 1
Miss Peach Posted March 15, 2021 Posted March 15, 2021 I just met a Scorpio who works 6 days a week and he's still making time for me. He's also sending me books to discuss, activities he wants to do with me, calling me daily, etc. He's made it pretty clear there aren't a lot of women like me and wants to see where things go. I used to work for a tax company and was busy with tax season and while I was busy I still found ways to go out once or twice per week. I know it's hard to hear but I would assume he's not interested enough to make the time for you right now. I would break it off before you get any more involved and tell him if he's that busy right now with work you understand but to get back to you in April. I wouldn't be able to relax with the hot and cold and would hold out for when he could pursue you or for someone who knows what he wants.
Negotaurus Posted March 16, 2021 Posted March 16, 2021 On 3/7/2021 at 3:17 AM, Brooke02 said: Let me guess... Virgo? Lol.. jk On 3/6/2021 at 10:10 PM, Cookiesandough said: Typical Virgo ... Be nice to us Virgos! It's not our fault we're a bit annoying sometimes :c
Negotaurus Posted March 16, 2021 Posted March 16, 2021 Astrology is very complex and personally I have reason to believe in it, thanks to the experiences I've had. With that being said. Do not let it lead you, it's more like a little guide that can help you out here and there. Him being into you, into somebody else or not into anybody at all doesn't have much to do with astrology. People who like you WILL want to spend time with you. This guy sounds lukewarm at best.
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