whatitdo Posted March 2, 2021 Posted March 2, 2021 I messed up, I lost her and I still love her. Very brief back ground met when I was still living / together with previous ex. Once we broke up me and Ann started dating. I fell hard very hard (no not rebound she was what I would describe as my perfect woman visually). During the time dating she always wanted more info then I was willing to give. IE my ex’s name, where exactly I lived etc, and wanted to put pics of us up on social media. again shortening a long story, nobody knows where I live. And I don’t do social media. To be fair she kept bugging me about social media ( I caved) but she still didn’t know where I lived and didn’t give her info about ex anyway I found out she posted on social media pics of me and I lost it because I was unaware. She got mad and ended things telling me to contact her when I was ready to answer all her questions and let her meet my kids. We spoke for about a week after BU, then I asked if I could come over and watch a movie have some wine she said yea. By time I got there she changed her mind. Big fight insued and I haven’t spoke to her since. that was 3 months ago. Kind of ran into her twice. After first time she unblocked me and I got a call from a blocked number, second time I got two calls from blocked number.... all I wanna do is hear her voice but I know I never will again
Miss Spider Posted March 2, 2021 Posted March 2, 2021 (edited) Are you still living with your ex? why you won’t tell people where you date where you live . Being so secretive in a serious relationship is a huge red flag to normal people Edited March 2, 2021 by Shortskirtslonglashes 1
Author whatitdo Posted March 2, 2021 Author Posted March 2, 2021 She knew about it when we first met I explained it. No I do not live with my ex... I moved as soon as our lease was up. now she was going to know where I lived as I explained to her, but she wanted it when she wanted it not when I felt comfy. My house is where my kids are and I keep dating and kids SEPERATE until I know things are going to last.... plus I had just got out a relation so I wanted to give my kids time to heal. I told her come April all those doors would be open. 1
amygirl908 Posted March 2, 2021 Posted March 2, 2021 Honestly just reading this makes me skeptical lol. There has be trust building on both sides. If you aren't willing to even make compromises it was fair that she walked away. Can't live in a world of absolutes when you're trying to build a relationship. Everyone has to give a little bit and meet in the middle. Also, If she's the love of your life but you can't trust her to have your address and not cross a boundary that's a problem. Trust building goes both ways.
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