What is the deal

[arlington]

I have posted several times about my situation. I had tried to talk to my friends about this and everyone is pretty much dumb founded on what I should do.

 

My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago. We dated for 5 months and we were friends for about the same amount of time before that. He came on very strong in the beginning and then when (and this is my impression) when the infatuation faded away he said that he was not feeling anything else other than friends and we broke up. We still spend a lot of time together and whenever he doesn't know where I am or if I get text messages or phone calls he gets jealous. He knew that I went out on a few dates with someone else and I could tell he was jealous.

 

So yeah - ok - he wants his cake and eat it too - I understand that! But what should I do? When spend tons of time together, we enjoy each others company and more recently we have been having sex. So correct me if I am wrong - what else could you want out of a relationship. I am so confused and really don't know what to do. Obviously I still care about him, but I just don't understand and thats the bottom line. I guess maybe he will wake up or maybe he was just scared of committment, but this is dirivng me nuts. Can anyone provide me with any advice on how I should handle this? Please - I would appreciate it! Thanks

[kitten chick]

We can't tell you what to do but if you're unhappy with the situation then why not just leave?

 

He's happy with a FWB situation. Men who can't say yes, also can't say no. Don't think for a second that if he fell for another woman he wouldn't go after her without giving you another thought.

 

IMO, you need to let him go and move on but that is only because I couldn't be happy in that kind of situation. If you can be then great, hang out, have some fun and when one of you meets other people it will just end. If you're posting here about your feelings for him then it doesn't sound like you can handle the latter.

 

Best of luck