FelicityT Posted February 24, 2021 Posted February 24, 2021 Matched with a nice looking man with similar interests. The dating site only gives you 10 days or they unmatch you. Since it was nearing day seven and I had not heard from him I decided to leave a one-word comment in the message thread. me “ expiring .. ” him “ Hi doll hope you’re well” ?? is this a brush off ? Is there any interest at al ? No question just a statement. Do I Answer ! thank you !
Mrin Posted February 24, 2021 Posted February 24, 2021 Dude here. He's low interest at best. Don't send anything else. 4
alphamale Posted February 25, 2021 Posted February 25, 2021 3 hours ago, FelicityT said: Matched with a nice looking man with similar interests. The dating site only gives you 10 days or they unmatch you. Since it was nearing day seven and I had not heard from him I decided to leave a one-word comment in the message thread. me “ expiring .. ” him “ Hi doll hope you’re well” ?? is this a brush off ? Is there any interest at al ? No question just a statement. Do I Answer ! thank you ! There is no interest 1
Gaeta Posted February 25, 2021 Posted February 25, 2021 Doll ? Nobody knows how to politely speak to a woman anymore. Don't answer 2
Wiseman2 Posted February 25, 2021 Posted February 25, 2021 11 hours ago, FelicityT said: The dating site only gives you 10 days or they unmatch you. me “ expiring .. ” him “ Hi doll hope you’re well” Sorry this happened. What dating site is it? Just let it expire. He doesn't seem interested with a nonsense response like that. Next time send messages that mean something such as "we matched, so would you like to meet for coffee?" "Expiring" is sort of meaningless. 2
Fletch Lives Posted February 25, 2021 Posted February 25, 2021 I would say something like, "I'm doing fine how are you?"
Mrin Posted February 25, 2021 Posted February 25, 2021 11 hours ago, Gaeta said: Doll ? Nobody knows how to politely speak to a woman anymore. Don't answer I don't know toots, I think it is kinda swell. Kidding! OMG Kidding! Don't hurt me. 7
d0nnivain Posted February 25, 2021 Posted February 25, 2021 I agree, let this expire. He's not interested.
SaraSays Posted February 28, 2021 Posted February 28, 2021 Please try to not send something like this in any context. Regardless of whether to a man or woman, it's both annoying, and shows you in a negative light (it's a nonsense message that wastes time to read, and it's low-effort). Write something decent, that shows a bit of thought, whenever you're getting in contact with anyone. It shows you have depth, to put some thought into messages, and it's a good writing exercise, even if it leads to nothing in this particular instance (it'll hopefully be good practice for when something does click). Best of luck to you.
dramafreezone Posted February 28, 2021 Posted February 28, 2021 (edited) On 2/24/2021 at 3:43 PM, Mrin said: Dude here. He's low interest at best. Don't send anything else. He does have low interest, but if she likes him she should pursue for a bit. Don't know what's wrong with that. If she sees enough men that she likes just as much, then sure why bother with one with low interest. But obviously she felt strongly enough about him to ask on a message board what she should do. I don't see any harm in striking up dialogue. A similar message from a woman wouldn't stop me from asking her out. Edited February 28, 2021 by dramafreezone
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