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Hot Coco, read your post with interest - some very similar circumstances to mine.

 

You summed up the feelings very well, just how I feel about my husband and other man.

 

I just wondered how you were getting on seeing as this was the situation around a month ago.

 

I hadn't read this post before but I think Aquarius has rejevunated it from the pits of the loveshack forum so I thought I'd ask.

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Dear Hot Coco,

 

I was going to let you know I thought you called a shot correctly, that I did not see. You made a comment on the thread under Marriage, started by Confused123, that it was not worthwhile to respond to PortableVision's post.

 

I am new here, myself, and you just seemed like a constructive person, so I thought I would post you accolades on your thread.

 

Blessings.

 

Wow! Thanks, Aquarius! Nice to have some positive feedback. Sure do appreciate that.:)

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Hot Coco, read your post with interest - some very similar circumstances to mine.

 

You summed up the feelings very well, just how I feel about my husband and other man.

 

I just wondered how you were getting on seeing as this was the situation around a month ago.

 

I hadn't read this post before but I think Aquarius has rejevunated it from the pits of the loveshack forum so I thought I'd ask.

 

Thanks for asking Sunset. I've been in NC. It was just a bad habit I had to break...at least that's how I look at it. Maybe I should take up porn instead! Kidding!

 

How's it going for you Sunset?

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Thanks for asking Hot Coco, I was doing NC, joined the October NC group and the OM kept emailing but I ignored him.

 

I am very confused about why I had the affair but I think I miss the attention and excitement rather than the man himself. Very low esteem at the moment but have bought a few self help books and am thinking of going to hynotherapy to address issues I have.

 

I can't help feeling though that whilst I was in NC I give away my power in that because I am doing something purposely I am thinking about it all the time. Anyway rightly or wrongly I emailed him yesterday to reply to his email, I just said I hadn't been on line for a while but that I hoped he was ok.

 

I am not hanging around waiting for a reply like previous so hopefully I am getting there.

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