Sunset Posted November 9, 2005 Posted November 9, 2005 Hot Coco, read your post with interest - some very similar circumstances to mine. You summed up the feelings very well, just how I feel about my husband and other man. I just wondered how you were getting on seeing as this was the situation around a month ago. I hadn't read this post before but I think Aquarius has rejevunated it from the pits of the loveshack forum so I thought I'd ask.
Author Hot Coco Posted November 9, 2005 Author Posted November 9, 2005 Dear Hot Coco, I was going to let you know I thought you called a shot correctly, that I did not see. You made a comment on the thread under Marriage, started by Confused123, that it was not worthwhile to respond to PortableVision's post. I am new here, myself, and you just seemed like a constructive person, so I thought I would post you accolades on your thread. Blessings. Wow! Thanks, Aquarius! Nice to have some positive feedback. Sure do appreciate that.
Author Hot Coco Posted November 9, 2005 Author Posted November 9, 2005 Hot Coco, read your post with interest - some very similar circumstances to mine. You summed up the feelings very well, just how I feel about my husband and other man. I just wondered how you were getting on seeing as this was the situation around a month ago. I hadn't read this post before but I think Aquarius has rejevunated it from the pits of the loveshack forum so I thought I'd ask. Thanks for asking Sunset. I've been in NC. It was just a bad habit I had to break...at least that's how I look at it. Maybe I should take up porn instead! Kidding! How's it going for you Sunset?
Sunset Posted November 10, 2005 Posted November 10, 2005 Thanks for asking Hot Coco, I was doing NC, joined the October NC group and the OM kept emailing but I ignored him. I am very confused about why I had the affair but I think I miss the attention and excitement rather than the man himself. Very low esteem at the moment but have bought a few self help books and am thinking of going to hynotherapy to address issues I have. I can't help feeling though that whilst I was in NC I give away my power in that because I am doing something purposely I am thinking about it all the time. Anyway rightly or wrongly I emailed him yesterday to reply to his email, I just said I hadn't been on line for a while but that I hoped he was ok. I am not hanging around waiting for a reply like previous so hopefully I am getting there.
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