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3 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Should I ask him what he means by let's have some fun?

Yes, please do. And report back. We can’t wait. 

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Just now, Trail Blazer said:

You shouldn't have to ask him.  It's pretty obvious to all and sundry!  He wants sex!  

Ok thank you. So how do I deny him? Should I ignore his text or cancel the date?  I'm not about ghosting

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1 hour ago, Britney25 said:

Yes but it's only a dinner. Why would he say let's have some fun? Does he think I want a one night stand?

He doesn't yet know what you want.  What he's doing is finding out if you want the same thing as him.   

 

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Just now, basil67 said:

He doesn't yet know what you want.  What he's doing is finding out if you want the same thing as him.   

 

So should I tell him that's not what I'm looking for?

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2 minutes ago, Pumpernickel said:

Yes, please do. And report back. We can’t wait. 

Are you sarcastic? 

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12 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Now hes texting me how tall I am and to send him a photo

Tell him how tall you are & send him a picture. The less you wear in the picture, the more he will like you, and the more seriously he’ll take you! 👍🏻 I promise 

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Just now, Pumpernickel said:

Tell him how tall you are & send him a picture. The less you wear in the picture, the more he will like you, and the more seriously he’ll take you! 👍🏻 I promise 

Stop please. It's not what I want.

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Just now, Britney25 said:

Ok thank you. So how do I deny him? Should I ignore his text or cancel the date?  I'm not about ghosting

You deny him sex by not meeting him.  It's that simple.

When an older, successful man openly speaks of his wealth and desire to "have fun" with a much younger woman, it's because he feels entitled to do just that.

You cannot get with a man who wants something from you that is incompatible with what you're looking for.  You cannot change what he wants.

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7 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

He wants sexy pictures. 

Omg . I should tell him I'm cancelling the date. 

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3 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Ok thank you. So how do I deny him? Should I ignore his text or cancel the date?  I'm not about ghosting

Here what I would do. 

Remember you have absolutely nothing to lose here.

I would call him, not text, CALL HIM. I would tell him hello Joe, I just want to clarify something with you it seems you have the wrong idea about me. I am looking for a serious date, and 'having fun with you' isn't on my agenda for Friday. Are you still interested in dinner? 

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Red flag when the guy doesn't even try to play the game.  If he's asking physical questions (even height/or for additional photos), he's not even trying to pretend as if he's interested in getting to know you. If you aren't interested, just tell him or stop responding (i wouldn't call that ghosting as you don't owe this guy anything).

Sorry, I just skipped to the end of the thread to see how much it's devolved since the first few posts. 

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2 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

Here what I would do. 

Remember you have absolutely nothing to lose here.

I would call him, not text, CALL HIM. I would tell him hello Joe, I just want to clarify something with you it seems you have the wrong idea about me. I am looking for a serious date, and 'having fun with you' isn't on my agenda for Friday. Are you still interested in dinner? 

I disagree, just text him, if you call him watch out,  It’s a rabbit hole.

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1 hour ago, Britney25 said:

Is this a red flag?

It's only a red flag if the term was accompanied by a honey pot emoji. 🍯

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Just now, Versacehottie said:

Red flag when the guy doesn't even try to play the game.  If he's asking physical questions (even height/or for additional photos), he's not even trying to pretend as if he's interested in getting to know you. If you aren't interested, just tell him or stop responding (i wouldn't call that ghosting as you don't owe this guy anything).

Sorry, I just skipped to the end of the thread to see how much it's devolved since the first few 

Just now, Interstellar said:

I disagree, just text him, if you call him watch out. 

 

I texted him that, I couldn't call him

 

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Just now, Interstellar said:

I disagree, just text him, if you call him watch out. 

He's 50. He will pick up. 

He will also be caught in his game live. Calling him will teach him Britney means business and has no problem calling a duck a duck when she sees one.

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Just now, Interstellar said:

I disagree, just text him, if you call him watch out. 

I agree, why waste any more time on this guy?  He's not worthy.

Calling him is if you wanted to toy with him or go on the date.  There is nothing to salvage here though.  Just text saying that you don't see things working out or block.

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Just now, Britney25 said:

I texted him that, I couldn't call him

 

Ok, let's see now lol

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I mean he's the pathetic one, getting all hot and bothered because he thinks he has a live "young" one on the hook.  Take yourself off the hook :) 

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1 minute ago, Versacehottie said:

I mean he's the pathetic one, getting all hot and bothered because he thinks he has a live "young" one on the hook.  Take yourself off the hook :) 

Omg he texted me have fun since we wont with an emoji tongued face

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Just now, Britney25 said:

Omg he texted me have fun since we wont with an emoji tongued face

B.L.O.C.K.

Immature and ridiculous of him.

He's seeing you in a very one-dimensional way.  Don't permit it.

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4 minutes ago, Gaeta said:

Ok, let's see now lol

He texted back ok honey have fun since we wont with Emily tongue emoji 

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Just now, Britney25 said:

He texted back ok honey have fun since we wont with Emily tongue emoji 

He dumped you.

Good riddance. 

He was up to no good. 

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Britney: Remember the last guy called you 'love' and this one 'honey' and both were up to no good. Keep that in mind. 

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1 minute ago, Gaeta said:

He dumped you.

Good riddance. 

He was up to no good. 

Thank God at least he made it known before we met. That's the positive I take away from this.

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Just now, Gaeta said:

Britney: Remember the last guy called you 'love' and this one 'honey' and both were up to no good. Keep that in mind. 

Yeah...that last guy is not going to text me anymore.  Its done. At least this guy made it known sooner.

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