Honey

[Britney25]

1 minute ago, Trail Blazer said:

Okay.  Firstly, honey is very condescending coming from a man twice your age.  I can't fathom any circumstances other than he's looking at you to be a piece of arm candy.

Feel free to tell me it's none of my business, but seriously, why are you looking to date people so much older than yourself?  I mean, what is the appeal in dating a guy 30 years your senior?

If you don't want to divulge such information here, at least ask yourself why and be certain to screen out all the guys which display any red flag behaviors.  Men of his age will exhibit many when looking for a girl half their age.

 

Yes well my intuition told me that something is not right with him calling me Honey before meeting me in person. So I agree with you. 

Why I like older Men? I just do. I find them to be sexy, mature and successful.  

[Pumpernickel]

Just now, Interstellar said:

I’ve never called any woman “honey” or “sweetie”. He sounds too comfortable, like one of those guys wearing a gold necklace, gold bracelet, hawaiian shirt, belly sticking out.

Tommy Bahama

[Mrin]

Just now, Pumpernickel said:

Yes, maybe 50 = new 30. But calling her “honey” is disrespectful, given their age difference, and the fact they’ve never met. Are you kidding me? 

Ya I am. Sorry if my sarcasm isn't coming across.

[Britney25]

1 minute ago, Interstellar said:

I’ve never called any woman “honey” or “sweetie”. He sounds too comfortable, like one of those guys wearing a gold necklace, gold bracelet, hawaiian shirt, belly sticking out.

You mean he sounds like a Playboy? Hes a semi retired lawyer who is divorced and has 3 kids. Kept telling me how successful he is and how much money he has but he seemed like a normal Man before todays text.

[introverted1]

33 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Age range is to 55 but I want a man to take me seriously.  First he was nice and saying looking forward to meeting me and now this text calling me honey and let's have some fun. Omg when will I meet a normal guy.

You said you were 25 when you first posted on LS in 2015, so that puts you at 29-30 now. Guys in their 50s are not going to take a 30yo seriously, for the most part.  They'll expect that you are, in fact, just looking for some fun.

[Pumpernickel]

1 minute ago, Britney25 said:

Yes well my intuition told me that something is not right with him calling me Honey before meeting me in person. So I agree with you. 

Why I like older Men? I just do. I find them to be sexy, mature and successful.  

- hint: that very much depends on who the man is, despite his age 

[Pumpernickel]

1 minute ago, Mrin said:

Ya I am. Sorry if my sarcasm isn't coming across.

oh, thanks for the clarification - I was worried for a split second 

[Britney25]

1 minute ago, introverted1 said:

You said you were 25 when you first posted on LS in 2015, so that puts you at 29-30 now. Guys in their 50s are not going to take a 30yo seriously, for the most part.  They'll expect that you are, in fact, just looking for some fun.

What did he mean by let's have some fun? Sex? 

[Trail Blazer]

2 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Yes well my intuition told me that something is not right with him calling me Honey before meeting me in person. So I agree with you. 

Why I like older Men? I just do. I find them to be sexy, mature and successful.  

Why do older men like much younger women?  Because they find them (their youthful looks) sexy, immature and impressionable.

Tread very carefully.  Older men looking to date you, especially the successful ones, are not looking to date you out of mutual respect.

[Trail Blazer]

7 minutes ago, Pumpernickel said:

Yes, maybe 50 = new 30. But calling her “honey” is disrespectful, given their age difference, and the fact they’ve never met. Are you kidding me? 

Woah there, hold your it was clearly a facetious post with the winky emoji at the end.

[Interstellar]

7 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

You mean he sounds like a Playboy? Hes a semi retired lawyer who is divorced and has 3 kids. Kept telling me how successful he is and how much money he has but he seemed like a normal Man before todays text.

More like one of those hustlers at the diamond district: “Hey honey! yo beautiful!  whaddya want? I got Rolexes, Patek Phillipes, Cartiers...come ovah sweetie, I have what yo looking foh, i’ll  give yah what ya want.”

Edited February 24, 2021 by Interstellar

[Pumpernickel]

2 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

You mean he sounds like a Playboy? Hes a semi retired lawyer who is divorced and has 3 kids. Kept telling me how successful he is and how much money he has but he seemed like a normal Man before todays text.

Telling you about how much money he has is bragging. Bragging = he has an agenda .... why? ——-> Bragging won’t work with women he would take seriously. He brags about money, because he thinks you’ll be impressed. With women he would take seriously, bragging wouldn’t work. He would not even try that with these women. He tries that with you, bc he thinks it’ll work with you. 

[poppyfields]

8 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Kept telling me how successful he is and how much money he has but he seemed like a normal Man before todays text.

Lord girl, this is a bigger red flag than him calling you honey.  

Guy even hints how much green he has (and before even meeting?) is an automatic next for me, no thank you.

I don't have time to go into why.

Edited February 24, 2021 by poppyfields

[Pumpernickel]

2 minutes ago, Trail Blazer said:

Woah there, hold your it was clearly a facetious post with the winky emoji at the end.

I’m so holding them now

[Britney25]

Now hes texting me how tall I am and to send him a photo

[Britney25]

9 minutes ago, Trail Blazer said:

Why do older men like much younger women?  Because they find them (their youthful looks) sexy, immature and impressionable.

Tread very carefully.  Older men looking to date you, especially the successful ones, are not looking to date you out of mutual respect.

But there are Men who marry younger Women. Now he texted me asking how tall am I and to send him a photo

[Trail Blazer]

1 minute ago, Britney25 said:

But there are Men who marry younger Women. Now he texted me asking how tall am I and to send him a photo

Does he not know what you look like?  Did you not meet on a dating app?

[Britney25]

1 minute ago, Trail Blazer said:

Does he not know what you look like?  Did you not meet on a dating app?

He knows what I look like but is asking for a photo. No not dating app but facebook

[Trail Blazer]

2 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

But there are Men who marry younger Women. 

Yes, and there's usually a larger component of transactional relationship dynamics at play than a normal relationship based on mutual love and respect.

[Britney25]

2 minutes ago, Trail Blazer said:

Does he not know what you look like?  Did you not meet on a dating app?

How should I reply?

[Britney25]

1 minute ago, Trail Blazer said:

Yes, and there's usually a larger component of transactional relationship dynamics at play than a normal relationship based on mutual love and respect.

Should I ask him what he means by let's have some fun?

[Ami1uwant]

55 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Age range is to 55 but I want a man to take me seriously.  First he was nice and saying looking forward to meeting me and now this text calling me honey and let's have some fun. Omg when will I meet a normal guy.

 

why to 55 ifyou are 25?  

[Gaeta]

2 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

He knows what I look like but is asking for a photo.

He wants sexy pictures. 

[Trail Blazer]

1 minute ago, Britney25 said:

How should I reply?

Well, that depends on how you wish to proceed moving forward.

Firstly, ask yourself why he's asking when he already knows what you look like.

Secondly, what do you think he'll do once you send him a pic? 

I'm almost certain he'll continue down that path, expecting nudes before you know it.

[Trail Blazer]

2 minutes ago, Britney25 said:

Should I ask him what he means by let's have some fun?

You shouldn't have to ask him.  It's pretty obvious to all and sundry!  He wants sex!