anonymous95 Posted February 21, 2021 Posted February 21, 2021 We been together for almost 6 months we used to text and call everyday for hours. He would even talk about the future then he started getting busy with his job but still sent me messages everyday sometimes he won’t for a day and he told me about what he going through and his situation so i understood him but now he didn’t contact me for 5 days even tho i can see him get online on instagram! but never replied to my messages in the app we use! and i know he doesn’t take this phone to work. I understand that work is important but why he didn’t contact me for days if i’m important to him as he said?
Wiseman2 Posted February 21, 2021 Posted February 21, 2021 Have you met in person? Why is it long distance? Are you both talking to and dating local people? 1
ExpatInItaly Posted February 23, 2021 Posted February 23, 2021 On 2/21/2021 at 11:31 PM, Wiseman2 said: Have you met in person? That's my first question, too. Whatever the case, he appears to have lost interest in this. If he's got time to surf IG, he's got time to contact you. The fact that he isn't doing so suggests that he's probably on his way out the door, unfortunately. 2
ShyViolet Posted February 23, 2021 Posted February 23, 2021 This might just be his way of breaking up with you.
Miss Spider Posted February 26, 2021 Posted February 26, 2021 (edited) Sounds like he’s lost interest Edited February 26, 2021 by Shortskirtslonglashes
Thunder27 Posted February 28, 2021 Posted February 28, 2021 I agree with everyone else, this happened to me as well. I'm sorry.
hippychick3 Posted February 28, 2021 Posted February 28, 2021 If you have not met yet, no amount of texting and calling can take the place of spending real time together in person. You’ve built this false intimacy as his true attachment to you as a person is not really there. Please learn from this so you don’t become overly invested in someone you haven’t even met.
heavenonearth Posted March 25, 2021 Posted March 25, 2021 5 days is a lot after frequent every day communication. I agree this does not sound good. If this is his way of breaking up, he wasn't a great person anyway. Ghosting someone like this is not mature, and you are better off without him!
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