JRabbit Posted February 24, 2021 Posted February 24, 2021 21 minutes ago, Caligirl85 said: What is ur idea of a perfect time frame? Is there one? Seems men say they love me fast, I dont typically respond with an i love you back right away. I now feel 6 months bc I honestly haven't had a relationship besides my marriage that lasted longer than a few months. I think everyone is different, but my suggestion would be when you have had a serious conversation, that you are planning on being together for the forseeable future. I know guys can say this in a few weeks, but you have to be able to tell the fakes (love bombers) from the reals. Actions will show whats real, words are just words. Honestly I think at least 6 months, for me it would be closer to 8/year mark because I just really don't think a man in and out of a childs life quickly like that is great for their emotional well being long term. Good for you for all the growth you are accomplishing here!
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